4. If he’s got a bad habit, expect him to work hard to change it—and actively support him in doing so. No matter how supportive a wife is or isn’t, ultimately a man is completely responsible for his choices. Many men are very successful at fighting off the temptation to watch porn, while others feel a compulsion that seems almost impossible to fight. And yet, those same men usually want to honor God and want to honor their wives. If your man has anything from a bad habit to an actual addiction, make it clear that you expect him to get help – and that you’ll support him through the whole process. The actions above are a good start.
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