3 Reasons You Should NOT Gossip About Your Husband (and One Reason You Should!)

Reason #1: You Are Sabotaging How You Feel About Your Husband

I can almost guarantee that the reason you’re complaining about your man is that you’re dissatisfied, right? Well, in our research study for The Kindness Challenge, we discovered that the reason you’re dissatisfied is probably because you’re complaining about him!

Think about it for a minute: if you’re irritated, and you tell him you’re irritated, and you tell your girlfriends that you’re irritated, are you going to be more or less irritated? The answer is obvious.  We just don’t realize that is what is happening!

Want to be less dissatisfied? Stop telling other people (and him) that you are and see what happens! Sure, there are sometimes very real and big issues that need to be dealt with. I’m not minimizing those. But there are almost certainly good things, too.