#2: Give Him A Chance To Practice
Though he may feel tentative and uncertain, your appreciation will foster boldness on his part to continue his efforts. Translation: Don’t gently tease him for picking a sports bar when he planned a date night out. As you show only appreciation and withhold criticism, he’ll be more confident. And at that point, you’ll have the foundation to give feedback that won’t be seen as criticism. As he sees what you like, you’ll enjoy more experiences that are tailored to your likes and dislikes, and he’ll develop confidence that he’s pleasing you. That’s a win-win!
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