When I want to say “I love you,” I often give a gift. Why? Saying “I love you” seems like what everyone says, what I have said before now, and not big enough for the feelings I have inside me. How do I get the experience out of me using words? Even a tiny experience makes this hard: my shoulder hurts. That is true right now, but the grinding, dull ache is hard to convey with the weakness that comes along aside.... Read more