Trials, adversity, pain, suffering, loss, persecution, attacks, and downright onslaught are part of the lives of all who put their hands to the plow and served the Lord. Both past and present.
But there’s a great tragedy when a servant of the Lord waste’s their sufferings.
There’s no artful way of saying it, but the trick is to learn how to be broken but not destroyed.
If you’re looking for a footnote, read 2 Corinthians Chapter 4.
That chapter is the “textbook” for those who aspire to serve God.