Dr. KP Yohannan Metropolitan: Respond with Compassion and Understanding

Dr. KP Yohannan Metropolitan: Respond with Compassion and Understanding October 27, 2017

John the Baptist sat in Herod’s prison. Knowing that his life hung by a very thin thread, he sent two of his disciples to Jesus to ask, “Are You the coming One, or do we look for another?” (Luke 7:20). What had happened to the mighty, fearless preacher who called his whole nation to repentance and accused the Pharisees of being a brood of vipers?

John was born to elderly parents—an incredible miracle. Growing up, he must have heard them say countless times, “You are the one the prophet Isaiah wrote about, the one who will come in the spirit of Elijah to prepare the way of the Lord.” John had absolutely no doubt about his identity, and he knew how to answer those who asked if he was the Messiah. “I am not the Christ,” he confessed. “I am the voice of one crying in the wilderness. . . . It is He who, coming after me, is preferred before me” (John 1:20, 23, 27).

Shortly afterward, John publicly declared Jesus to be the Son of God and Israel’s Messiah, proclaiming, “Behold! The Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world!” (John 1:29). This declaration testifies of the deep knowledge, revelation, conviction and understanding John had about God’s purpose.

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How did Jesus respond to John’s confusion?

In prison, however, he wondered whether or not he had made a fatal mistake. John the Baptist—of whom Jesus testified that he was the greatest man born on earth—went through the worst confusion and doubt anyone can entertain: He questioned whether he’d failed his mission and misled his nation by declaring the wrong person to be the Messiah.

The reason for his confusion was that he expected Jesus to use His power to rescue him and set up His kingdom.

Amazingly, Jesus didn’t condemn him. Neither did He say to John’s disciples, “You mean John sent you to ask Me these questions? It shows that he has lost it completely. I never thought he would fall by the wayside like anyone else.”

Instead, Jesus responded with understanding and compassion.

First, He healed many who were sick, blind and lame, and He delivered those afflicted with evil spirits.

Then He told John’s disciples, “Go and tell John the things you have seen and heard: that the blind see, the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, the poor have the gospel preached to them. And blessed is he who is not offended because of Me” (Luke 7:22-23).

What Jesus was saying to John was this: “John, it’s all right. You are expecting action. You wanted Me to snap my fingers and get you out of prison and vindicate you. You are a righteous and wonderful individual, but that’s not what I am going to do.

“When you serve Me, you will go through times of deep struggles. But if you keep looking at what I, the Lord, am doing, you will see that you have a part in all of it.

“John, don’t forget that these blind people now see, the crippled walk and millions who were lost are turning to the Father. John, it’s worth it.”

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How do we deal with others when they go through struggles?

When I was younger, I remember how aggressive, proud and absolutely certain I was about everything. I used to be so critical and judgmental toward other brothers and sisters who were going through difficult times full of doubt and confusion. Some of them wanted to quit the ministry. Instead of showing compassion for them, I would come up with Bible verses to preach at them.

Sometimes I did the same thing to my wife. One day, when I came home, her eyes were all red, and I asked her what was wrong. But before she could answer, I told her five Scripture references.

“Can you please stop preaching at me?” she asked. “I know all these Bible verses myself. The whole day I struggled with the kids and things at home. All I want is for you to understand what I am going through.”

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Let us learn from Jesus!

The next time we see our believers discouraged and confused, let us not say with our mouth, “I will pray for you,” while in our heart we are saying, “You creep, don’t you know better?”

Instead, let us encourage them to keep looking at what Jesus is doing and see the difference that their lives are making. A kind word means so much.

And one more thing: When Jesus talked to the crowds about John, He never mentioned John’s doubt and confusion. Instead, Jesus made the most amazing statements about John’s life and ministry.

Can we do the same for fellow believers in Christ? Let us be willing to look past their problems and times of discouragement and see the amazing things God has done in and through their lives. Take time to consider the good God has done through others’ lives. And then let us believe that He will do even greater things through them in the future. Today is not the final snap shot of their story.

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  • Joby Kurien

    Yes, it is important to empathize with others when they suffer. May the Lord help us not to judge people but instead show them love and compassion because most of the time that is all that is required.

  • Jacob Pattaparampil

    Very true. Compassion is the key to relate with others. In our modern lives, the ability to see oneself as equal with other human beings has a tremendous impact on how we relate with others; also, if the principle can be practiced by ALL can affect our earth as a WHOLE.

  • Landis M

    Kim, I think you make a good point here. There are many times when we need to remember to be intentional, instead of just reciting a script or walking through the steps like we have done a million times before. Compassion is an active feeling that we cannot fake, it must reside within us. Every time we have the chance to pray for someone, or make a difference in someone else’s life we must always remember to be intentional about that interaction, and that way compassion will naturally come.
    By being believers in Christ, we are equipped to help others in need. Not because we trained for it or we were born with it, but instead we willingly want to resemble a life like Christ did. This means that we look for any situation in which we can help or serve, whether that be listening or just making someone feel understood. Then once we see these opportunities, we act upon them. What do you think are some small ways in which we can become better at being compassionate with those in need?