8 Essential Survival Tips For Divorced Catholics

6.    Thick Skin

I always tell my children that the family is meant to be a safe environment. Where you can be yourself and confident that despite your faults and failings, you’ll always be loved, accepted, and important. Since we as Catholics are family, too, I believe the same definition applies. Our Catholic family should be that kind of environment where people are loved and accepted. Where we help each other become better people through discussing our problems and finding resolutions to them. From the worm’s eye view in our neighborhoods and parishes to the bird’s eve view as a global Church community, we all should be working to help each other become better people, but for some reason we’re having trouble doing that.

If you are facing the judgment of others because you are divorced, whether it’s from a family member, a friend, or a fellow parishioner, do not allow their judgement to drag you down. Remember instead, how God sees you… you are his beloved and there is nothing you can do to make him love you any less. Pray for those who judge you and be kind to them, and turn your attention to God who loves you.

How sweet the presence of Jesus to the longing, harrassed soul! It is instant peace and balm to every wound. – St. Elizabeth Ann Seton