It helps to kill people too! Turns out the whole “no fault” divorce thing basically pretends that when you destroy the family you were supposed to nurture, love and support, that sort of trauma can adversely affect the health of the victims of your selfish betrayal. Amazingly, it also appears that even if everyone around you says, “Everybody agreed that it was nobody’s fault” this does nothing to mitigate the effects upon victims of divorce.
In other news, scientists have discovered that if you drop a brick on your betrayed spouse’s and/or child’s head from a height of 20 feet, it hurts them very badly in ways they may not recover from for years, if at all. Further, explaining that you are doing so because “I’m doing what I need to do for me” or moaning “What about my needs for emotional and professional fulfillment!” has not been shown to reduce the pain one bit.
Sorry, but I’ve seen too many bloody awful divorces close up. It’s the psychic and emotional mass murder of a family. Yes, there are situations where it’s necessary for the physical safety of (usually) the wife and kids. But an awful lot of it is Generation Narcissus bullshit and self-absorption.