I just recently presented at a stake Relief Society function and requested the women in the audience to submit anonymous questions they might want addressed.  Here is a sampling of what I received:We both are working and this causes stress and is a burden to our family, but income wavers between enough and not enough.  Even so, it is constantly barely enough.  How do we cope?How do you deal when your husband wants sex much more often than you and... Read more

Check out these 10 benefits to having sex on WebMD: 10 Surprising Health Benefits of Sex Read more

I know that you have written extensively on pornography, but I have another question. My husband admits to viewing porn on occasion. As he puts it- minutes a month. He sees absolutely no problem with this and feels no guilt or shame or sorrow for it. He says it is not harmful to him or us as he is not addicted and it does not affect his life, work, or relationships. It bothers me a great deal. We go back... Read more

For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7 Read more

This above all:to thine own self be true,and it must follow, as the night the day,thou canst not then be false to any man. William Shakespeare Read more

Note new polls on my sidelines.  Thanks in advance for participating. Read more

Healthysex.com  is a great resource I highly recommend.  I also recommend the book The Porn Trap for those wanting help in overcoming the use of pornography in their lives. I also found the following article on pornography use by Wendy Maltz printed in the Psychotherapy Networker and the evolution of its use from possibly a therapeutic approach to a public health concern fascinating and would welcome any comments on it.  I think it’s a great read no matter what side... Read more

Check out the following article in the New York Times.  Great new research and information on the facets of maintaining a sustainable and satisfying marriage.  The Happy Marriage is the “Me” Marriage and take the Sustainable Marriage Quiz Read more

I wonder about the Church’s stance on Depression and Healing through Christ, when so MANY LDS women are loaded upon on every variation of SSRI drug available. I honestly can’t see the Savior saying to someone who is depressed “Dear Sister so and so.. you just need more Paxil…yes, that’s what you need to feel better!” From what I can tell, the church does not have an official “stance” on depression.  When  depressive symptoms (hopelessness, despair, sadness, etc.) are addressed,... Read more

It requires less character to discover the faults of others than is does to tolerate them.Jean Antoine Petit-Senn Read more