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A KIND HEART FOR OUR ENEMIES

A KIND HEART FOR OUR ENEMIES August 27, 2021

A KIND HEART FOR OUR ENEMIES

 

It is not a sin to have enemies.

 

Jesus had enemies.

 

But it is a sin not to extend kindness to our enemies.

 

Jesus said, “Love your enemies.”

 

King David, a man after God’s own heart, had enemies too. He was a warrior for God and yet he had a softer side to him.

 

David tries to show compassion to his adversaries. Some are willing to receive it, and some aren’t.

 

Maybe you are wrestling with the desire to be kind to your enemies. I want you to know up front, it will be a mixed bag. Some people will receive your kindness, and some will interpret it as a threat.

 

It is important as a warrior for the Lord, you do not get to a place where you can’t show kindness to others.

King David decided in 2 Samuel 9 to show kindness to Mephibosheth, his arch-enemy, King Saul’s, grandson.

King David is now in charge. He doesn’t need the house of Saul. But instead of overlooking his enemy’s house, he lets go of the harshness he feels to toward Saul and seeks to show kindness.

David chose someone from his enemy’s house to show kindness to.

Can you think of a friend of your enemy?

Once King David had identified a friend of his enemy. He sought in 1 Samuel 9:7 to restore land to him and told him he could eat at his table always.

This is a beautiful picture of God’s love for us. The Bible says in Romans 5:8, “While we were yet enemies, Christ died for us.”

Christ invited us to sit at his table while were still his enemies. Someone once said, “If Christ hadn’t died for his enemies, he would have had no one to die for.”

Christ restored eternal life to us.

When you think about your story? Do you see yourself as the enemy of your story or the hero? Do you realize that your acceptance of Christ is the acknowledgement that you are the enemy of your own story and Jesus is the hero?

King David continued his crusade to show the kindness of God to those who were his enemies in 2 Samuel 10. He picked, Hanun, the king of the Ammonites.

But Hanan’s advisors told him that David’s kindness couldn’t be trusted.

Can you think of someone in your life who is threatened by your kindness?

I can.

Did this happen to Jesus?

Yes, Judas.

Judas was with Jesus for three and a half years but decided Jesus couldn’t be trusted.

Jesus had someone who misinterpreted His kindness, so will you.

Judas chose to see Jesus’ kindness as a threat and thus he chose to see people’s kindness to Jesus as a waste.

Jesus saw Judas as a friend.

 

Judas saw Jesus as a threat.

 

So, when someone refuses to trust your kindness, do you take it back and decide it is not worth it? No, Jesus died for all. He was kind to all yet knew many would refuse like Judas. Once you show kindness, if someone rejects it, let them be who they are.

 

You might say, “That seems so cruel. Shouldn’t we try and use our lives to get them to change?” Yes, but once they have made their decision about you, you have to let them be who they are.

 

Jesus didn’t try and change Judas’s mind. He accepted who Judas was. Judas was a betrayer, and no amount of kindness would change his mind.

 

Ammonites had a trust problem. They responded to David like Judas responded to Jesus.

King David was trying to be kind to his adversaries, but they refused to receive it.

Because Hanun had a trust problem, he went on the attack toward King David.

What do you do when those you were trying to show kindness to try to destroy you and those you love?

Do we remain passive and allow them to do it?

No, we have to protect those entrusted to us from our enemies. That’s what David did in 2 Samuel 10 and that is what Jesus told the disciples do in Luke 22:35 when he told them to sell their coats and buy swords.

I want to address here the “Turn the other cheek” motif.

To turn the other cheek means to not retaliate when you are wronged.

Jesus does not want us to retaliate but he does want us to protect what He has entrusted to us.

Jesus tells the disciples in Matthew 10:16 that he is sending them out as sheep among wolves so be wise as serpents and innocent as doves.

The Enemy will use your kindness to destroy those God has entrusted to you. The job of a Shepherd is to protect the flock from the attacks of the Evil One.

Your job as a follower of Jesus is protect those, He has entrusted to you. That is what King David did. He protected Israel in 2 Samuel 10. When people are threatened by your kindness it is okay to defend what has been entrusted to you. Like a police officer facing a criminal with a weapon, it is okay to take the weapon out of their hand but once you do, you must return to peace not become vigilantes like them. Once King David restored order with Hanun in 2 Samuel 10, he extended peace to him.

What does that mean practically for us? It means, don’t hold a grudge once the threat has been absolved. Forgive and return to kindness, as soon and as much as possible.

 

None of us have arrived or perfected our ability to show kindness and boundary to our enemies all at the same time. Some of us are good at being kind and some of us are good at establishing the boundaries. We have to be committed to growing in both. May the Lord help us to continue to grow as we chase after a kind heart for our enemies.

 

Blessings,
Pastor Kelly


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