What God Wants for Your Life - Thoughts on the perennial demands and changing shape of Christian spirituality.

Children’s Grief Awareness Day: Spiritual Direction and Loss

November 14, 2018 By Frederick Schmidt

November is National Children’s Grief Awareness Month and tomorrow, November 15th, is Children’s Grief Awareness Day. You can find more information at: www.childrensgriefawarenessday.org Losing a parent carries with it two huge challenges (among others): One is the loss of the immediacy of a parent’s companionship. Under the best of circumstances, a supportive relationship with a parent can be a lifelong gift. Nurture, guidance and correction can give way to a relationship that is marked by the free exchange of ideas, reflection… Read more

7 Ways for the Church to Respond after Squirrel Hill

October 29, 2018 By Frederick Schmidt

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I am never quite sure what to make of Christian leaders and teachers who say that “they are shocked” at something like the murders in Jeffersontown, Kentucky, and Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania or that they “no longer recognize our country.” As a window into anger and grief, perhaps such observations are meant to express the shock we all experience when something so brutal and seemingly random occurs. But any robust doctrine of sin and evil that arises out of the Jewish and… Read more

Talking about God: 4 Ways Forward

October 16, 2018 By Frederick Schmidt

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In a recent New York Times editorial, Jonathan Merritt observes that “It is getting harder to talk about God.” Merritt became aware of this when he moved not long ago from Atlanta to New York city. He had not lost his facility with the English language, but he found that subtle social pressures made it harder as well. But, as Merritt notes, the fact that it really is getting harder to talk about God is neither limited to his own… Read more

Cardinal Cupich and the “Rabbit Hole” of Sexual Exploitation

August 29, 2018 By Frederick Schmidt

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Violation of boundaries, exploitation, betrayal, abuse of power – there have been any number of labels attached to the sex abuse scandal in Roman Catholic Church. And there have been an equal number of apologies offered up, alongside messages of sympathy for the victims. But now Chicago’s Cardinal Blase Cupich has declared that the church won’t go “down the rabbit hole” of addressing the conduct of church leaders because, the Pope has “a bigger agenda,” the church isn’t the only… Read more

Youth Ministry: Repenting at Our Leisure

August 13, 2018 By Frederick Schmidt

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At the beginning of the semester I often ask my students to tell us all where each of them believe they are headed vocationally. They will be asked that question a lot over three years and they will ask themselves that question as well. So, it’s good for them to get started on that quest. When student’s say that they believe that they might be called to youth ministry, I often – not so jokingly say: “Good for you. Youth… Read more

Revising the Lord’s Prayer

July 16, 2018 By Frederick Schmidt

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The Lord’s Prayer, revised for Moral Therapeutic Deism With thanks and apologies to Dorothy Sayers: Our ungendered parent, You who dwell beyond time and space, Unnumbered are your names, Your new world order come, Our vision of your will be done, On earth, as it accords with our preferences. Give us this day Confidence in our basic goodness, And forgive us the minor errors we may have made, Just as we forgive those who agree with us. … Read more

Should We Even Have a National Church Convention?

July 6, 2018 By Frederick Schmidt

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Sociologist Robert Wuthnow observed some years ago that American Protestants are increasingly alienated from denominational structures. In a useful set of distinctions that may say more about the perception of self and of others, than it does about social realities, Wuthnow explained that the vast majority of American church-goers consider themselves as residents of America’s Main Street: A cohort of people who, by and large, occupy the middle of the country, who are of relatively modest means and for whom… Read more

Methodists, The Politics of Leverage and the Future of Protestantism

June 11, 2018 By Frederick Schmidt

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Several weeks ago the bishops of the United Methodist Church concluded their deliberations on the future of the United Methodist Church. With an eye to the 2019 General Conference, the bishops have been weighing how to navigate the thorny issues facing their church, concerning same sex relations and the ordination of openly gay clergy. Before them were three options for resolving the dispute: The One Church Plan, The Traditionalist Plan and the Connectional Conference Plan. In the end, the Council… Read more

Suicide and Society

June 8, 2018 By Frederick Schmidt

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Suicide has many causes. But we also make it intrinsically more likely by insisting that we have the right to end our lives, as so many do now under the rubric of “assisted dying.” Once we arrogate that power to ourselves, instead of leaving it in the hands of God, then ending our lives at anytime, in any place in life becomes intrinsically more likely. Who is left to say, “you aren’t old enough, miserable enough, sad enough, weak enough,… Read more