Not all anger is the same:
Anger can be a vague, generalized feeling
- It can be occasioned by a specific set of circumstances
- It can arise out of the disparity between what we want and what is
- (And what we want can be a healthy, good thing to want…and it might not be)
- It can arise out of the disparity between what is and what should be
- (And we can be wrong or right about what should be)
We typically mishandle anger
- By acting out of it unreflectively
- Or by repressing it
And for that reason we have a lot of alternative vocabulary for anger
- And we tend to talk about some people as having a temper which (while no doubt true)
- Obscures the fact that we all get angry
The reason we mishandle anger lies with:
- Our general discomfort with emotion
- Negative associations with angry behavior
- And negative associations with conflict
The cleansing of the Temple is an excellent passage to study in this connection
- Because it shows Jesus having an emotion that we do not associate with God
- And it points to a fundamental truth:
Anger is not only appropriate at times, it can be a good and necessary thing
Anger can signal…
- Clarity
- Resolve
- The need to act
The question, of course, is what helps us to measure the appropriateness of our anger
- The answer lies in noting the difference in our motives
- In noting the difference between self-serving and other-serving anger
- The difference between ego, pique and something larger
That’s where the cleansing of the Temple fits in…
- Jesus embodies the appropriate manifestation of anger
- Rooted in the things of God
There is a message in anger like that
- Don’t be afraid of it
- Listen to it