May 6, 2011

Early success is like putting Miracle Gro on your character defects.”  –Michael J. Fox @ HIMSS conference in FebruaryMichael J. Fox, aka Marty McFly in “Back to the Future” to my kids, said this great quote at the conference Scott attended in February.  I’ve been thinking about it ever since.Clearly Michael J. Fox has been through both a lot of early success and a lot of suffering since his Parkinson’s diagnosis.  Scott was hugely impressed by his words, his sincerity, and… Read more

May 5, 2011

(A follow up to I’m Torturing my kids)“How was it?” I asked Kai-Kai when picking her up from her latest session with the Chinese water torture, aka as YMCA swim team.“OK.  The coach said it was a really hard workout.”“But you survived!  That’s great!  How does your body feel?”  I don’t know if she can sense it, but for all the whining and complaining that happens before swimming, after 30 minutes of “dry land” and 105 minutes of swimming laps Kai… Read more

May 3, 2011

None of my kids were early readers, and this really stressed me out.With my son, we wondered if he would ever read at all.  When he was in 2nd grade his teacher said he was obviously bright, always worked hard, always was on task, but still could barely read. At his IEP hearing, the special ed coordinator looked at us like we were crazy, pointing out that he scored average, high average and even high high on his tests.  On the decoding test,… Read more

April 30, 2011

Our granola breakfast looks like this upside down–lots of fruit on the bottom with a little yogurt andgranola on the bottom.  But taking photos of mycreations and uploading them is too overwhelming(Today’s my 46th birthday, here’s a birthday gift for you–my granola recipe!)I make a truly great granola.  I discovered granola while doing Weight Watchers 8 years ago.  When I ate a generous serving of fruit with a spoonful of nonfat plain yogurt and a sprinkling of granola, I wasn’t… Read more

April 29, 2011

I turn 46 tomorrow, and although I’ve already hit the mid-way point of my life, somehow the number 46 seals it for me. I’m sliding down the second half of my life towards death and freaking out just a little bit!I always hoped I’d be the sort of woman who aged gracefully, who accepted her gray hairs, who grew wiser and kindlier and more open with each passing year.  But now I’m not so sure.Take hair dye for instance.  I… Read more

April 28, 2011

Several years ago I thought of leaving campus ministry to take a church job.  When I told my kids they literally began weeping and wailing, “No!  Don’t do that!  We like InterVarsity!  We love students!”I didn’t leave InterVarsity, but I did leave direct grad student ministry to direct our team and work with faculty.  My kids are less enthusiastic about both aspects of my new job.    As Ling said recently, “What’s great about hanging out with a bunch of 40… Read more

April 27, 2011

My 2 younger kids claim I’m abusing them.  Is it because I’m forcing straight As or piano lessons or some other Tiger Mom stricture?  Is it because I’ve decided to go vegan on them and expunged the house of chocolate and junk food?  Nope.  I signed them up for swim team and am forcing them to exercise.  Yesterday the whining started 2 hours before swimming even began.  It got so bad that both parents lost it before almost forcibly carting… Read more

April 26, 2011

This morning on NPR I heard that the last company that produces manual typewriters has just discontinued them.  There are 10 English typewriters left of the 200 in stock—buy one now!  I turn 46 on Saturday.  The passing of the manual typewriter and my impending slide towards 50 makes me nostalgic for times gone by because my first manual typewriter was like a best friend.  When I took Typing in 10th grade, I was the third best typist in Mr…. Read more

April 22, 2011

(yet another blog that sort of picks up on the theme of true self/false self)My kids have spent vacation week doing a camp called the Possibilities Factory. They’re trying to raise $500 for Japan tsunami relief and send 500 letters to kids in Japan by 5 p.m. TODAY. Yesterday, I showed up as my kids were volunteering baked goods for the bake sale.  They wanted to bake:·      chocolate chip cookies·      sugar cookies·      lemon squares·      AND have me bake 3 loaves… Read more

April 21, 2011

(This is blog post #5 in a series on True Self/False self–you probably want to read #1 before reading this to know what’s going on)Lily Tomlin as Edith Anne.I was quite a bit smaller.Eleven years after my first Big Kathy/Little Kathy vision, God brought me back to that same vision.  I now lived in Boston, was married to Scott, the mother of two kids and in such rough shape Scott had declared “You’re out of control!  You need a retreat of… Read more

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