In Parashat Vayeishev, Joseph is asked by his father to go check on the ?shalom??the peace, or wholeness?of his brothers. Those familiar with Joseph?s story know that he had differences with his brothers even though they had the familial connection. We?re all part of something larger?the world, an age cohort, maybe the Jewish community?and at times, we have major differences with those in our communities. Should we always look for commonalities? Rabbi Jacobs gives his take in the episode of On the Other Hand.