How to treat your wife?

A wise husband, and one that seeketh to live in quiet with his wife, must observe these three rules. Often to admonish: Seldome to reproove: and never to smite her The husband is also to understand, that as God created the woman, not of the head, and so equall in authoritie with her husband: so also he created her not of Adams foote, that she should be troden downe and despised, but he tooke her out of the ribbe, that shee might walke ioyntly [jointly] with him, under the conduct and government … [Read more...]

Judge not by what you see on the outside…..

Some of us who seem quite nice people may, in fact, have made so little use of a good heredity and a good upbringing that we are really worse than those whom we regard as fiends.Can we be quite so certain how we should have behaved if we had been saddled with the psychological outfit, and then with a bad upbringing, and then with the power, say, of Himmler ? That is why Christians are told not to judge. We see only the results which a man's choices make out of his raw material. But God does … [Read more...]

Trust in God but

keep your POWDER dry Oliver Cromwell (1599 1658) is said to have said this to troops when they were about to cross a river: Put your trust in God; but mind to keep your powder dry.This combining spiritual trust and sensible action is such a wise, seemingly obvious statement it is amazing how often it is ignored! … [Read more...]

Mummy, whats a shameless link whore?

Pop over to Electric Venom and she will tell you all about it dear....I would never do that! O rats I already have.....! … [Read more...]

Confirming certain stereotypes

Woody Allen: 'there are only 3 important things sex and somehow i cant remember the other 2..... … [Read more...]

Can't get no satisfaction…..

Show me a thoroughly satisfied man & I will show you a failure Thomas Eddison … [Read more...]

Psychologists get it right for once!!!

One thing that really irritates me is the way the church seems to like being 50 years or more behind the world. Just as the church is embracing Freudian theory much of the psychiatric world is rejecting it for biological and psychological theories.Freudian theory can produce victims who blame others, and the experiences they have been through for the mess they are in. The essence of all cognitive theories is that we are not controlled by events,but by the meanings we give to events. -ed … [Read more...]

Hey how are you doing ?

Even secular literature has recognised that it is not always best to concentrate exclusively on feelings and has recognised the need to at times ask How are you doing and What do you need to do rather than How are you feeling . (Summerfield, Asylum-seekers, refugees and mental health services in the UK , Psychiatric Bulletin (2001) 25: 161-163)Sometimes the most helpful thing we can do for people is help them to become active- unemployment is associated with early death, divorce, family … [Read more...]

What wrong with the world?

G.K. Chesterton famously said 'I am'Greg Haslam states 'Rebellion against God-qiven authority is the route of our problems' … [Read more...]


The seeds of every man's sins are in my heart." It's something of which we must all continually remind ourselves and one another. The person who declares any given sin to be impossible for him or her has just increased the likelihood of committing it. (Brent D. from PDI) … [Read more...]


"Be killing sin, or it will be killing you." John Owen … [Read more...]


We must study how to convince and get within men Reformed PastorSee the category page for more posts on preaching or visit the sermons page to view or download sermons. … [Read more...]