Today I had some yummy pancakes with a cousin and his family. It was good to have a chilled out late Sunday chat and a big feed. There was another bloke there, around my dad’s age or possibly older. He was an interesting character. Quite knowledgeable, and it seems he’s had a lot of life experience. But he also happened to be one of those people who always has to disagree with you. He was bemoaning the lack of manners and politeness in today’s society. I mildly suggested that this is what every older generation suspects of those younger than them, as evidenced by what people have been writing since ancient times. For example, I remember learning in Ancient History many years ago now of some archaeological discovery. Someone found tablets in Greece, an ancient version of newspaper op-ed columns, from some social commentator bemoaning the lack of manners of children in his society some thousands of years ago.
Our conversation went on, as it often does, to the issue of how to be better Muslims. Invariably this discourse assumes we have to be more like the Muslims of old. And, equally invariably, whenever that happens I tend to bite my tongue lest I convey some controversially common sense notions. Such as whether we should take instruction from people who lived several generations ago, given society has progressed somewhat. And perhaps those people of the past were not as saintly as we were led to believe. Perhaps they were flawed as only humans can be. Or, whether we ought to learn about things other than what we were brought up to believe. Don’t our beliefs get strengthened if they are challenged? And if they actually fail to stand up to scrutiny, shouldn’t we celebrate the discovery of something even more righteous and closer to the truth than what we previously believed?
But, no, I don’t usually say that because I know how the conversations end. I’ve had those kind of conversations too many times before. Nevertheless, it’s a matter of some concern to me. Not just here in Pakistan but among most of us Muslims. Why are we so obsessed with our narrow understandings? And I don’t here just mean narrow understandings of Islam. There is literally a whole world of ideas and perspectives out there, and most are not related to Islam. We should be mindful of them, even if we decide to reject any literal truth other perspectives might offer.
Of course, most of what I’ve just said is not unique to Islam. But that shouldn’t dilute the message.
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Mustafa Qadri is a freelance journalist from Sydney, Australia, currently living in Pakistan. His blog can be found at http://www.mustafaqadri.net.