Why is it that most Christians assume that spirituality is a unisex reality?
Why have I, in 55 years of church attendance, never heard a sermon on gender differences in spirituality and only one that even acknowledged it as real (thanks Bob C.)?
Why is it that in a culture where we talk more and more about gender difference in how we shop and have heart attacks and think, we neglect to talk about how we experience God differently?
Why is there not a course in gender different spirituality in each and every seminary? Don’t clergy need to know about this, talk about this, wrestle with this?
Why is it that when women notice how different their experience of God is than the men they know, they think they are “wrong” or that the difference is unimportant?
Why is it that many women who have continued to grow spiritually have left the church and the church has been okay with that loss? In fact, tragically, many times the church has said “good riddance” because the women used their visions and voices to challenge the status quo.
Why is it that we as women are generally the only ones apologizing for the complications created by gender difference? Why do we often see our perspectives as secondary?
Why is it okay with any of us to limit the authentic voice of anyone, often through hierarchy or through an assumption of a unisex spirituality?
Why is it that many men feel they know more about the stories of women in Scripture than do the women in their lives? And why do many women think the same thing?
Why have we let the fear of boxing people into categories and narrow ways of being stop the conversation completely? Using this conversation about gender difference to limit individuality is a real and dangerous possibility. Caution is important. At the same time, I believe we can name these dynamics in ways that free us and do not bind us.
So, what do you care about enough to dare a rant?