Deacon Farmer Serves Up Pumpkins, Pies and Prayer

“I carve prayers in the pumpkins when they’re small,” says Sharon Trabbic, “and as they grow, the prayers grow as well.”

Deacon Ken Trabbic and his wife Sharon are the owners/operators of the Trabbic Family Farm, where they produce over 20 acres of pumpkins as well as wheat, field corn, sweet corn, soybeans and hay.  The farm has been in the Trabbic family for over 100 years; and the Trabbics write on their website about how they decided to establish the pumpkin patch:

“After praying and asking God what we should do on the farm as we raise our children, the thought of pumpkins came to rest on our hearts.  This year will be our 21st year with the pumpkin patch.  It has been an enjoyable experience of sharing in the lives of all those who visit the farm.”

Ken and Sharon spoke to our diaconate formation group about their unique ministry when my husband was preparing for ordination, a number of years ago.  I remember a particularly poignant story which Sharon told, about a woman who found a pumpkin out in the field carved with the message “Pray to End Abortion.”  The woman approached Sharon angrily and said, “My daughter is pregnant, and I certainly don’t want her life to be ruined by a baby!”  Sharon stopped her work and talked with the woman:  praying with her, offering alternatives to abortion, explaining the Church’s loving message about the sacredness of life.  Sharon had no idea of the outcome; but the following year, the woman again visited the pumpkin patch—this time bringing her daughter and her new grandchild—and personally thanked Sharon for her kindness and for helping her to decide in favor of Life.

Besides impromptu abortion counseling, Trabbic Farm offers all the standard kid-friendly activities you’d expect to find on an autumn excursion:  hayrides, pony rides, a straw bale maze and a corn maze, and a three-car pumpkin train with rotating pumpkin-shaped cars.  There’s also a petting zoo with squealing pigs, bunnies with wiggly noses, and plenty of farm animals to delight the city kids.  And of course, fields of ripe pumpkins.

There’s a store where visitors can purchase pumpkin pies and apple butter, popcorn and specialty jams.  Sometimes there’s live entertainment from a local bluegrass group.

But what sets Trabbic Farm apart from other Halloween destinations is the chapel, with its religious imagery and its rustic hay bale seating.  That, and a Rosary Tree from which visitors may pick a dangling rosary to take home.

There’s still time this weekend for an excursion to Trabbic Farm.  The farm is located at 1560 Sterns Road in Erie, Michigan, just north of the Michigan-Ohio border.  Hours are 10:00 a.m. through 7:00 p.m. daily through October 31.  For more information, visit the website or call 734.848.4049.

 

On the Feast of Blessed John Paul II: A Photo Montage from his Beatification

Banners like this hung all over Rome during the week of the Beatification

That was the week that was.  Five days of inspiring encounters, amazing introductions, challenging conversations.

In the first week of May 2011, it was my great privilege to be in Rome for the first-ever Vatican Blogfest and, not coincidentally, the Beatification of our beloved Holy Father, Pope John Paul II.  I thought I’d share some photo memories from my Beatification album with you today, on JPII’s feast day.

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Castel Sant’Angelo from the Tiber River

On May 2, I watched the sun rise over the Tiber River with a million of my brothers and sisters  in Christ.

By 2:30 in the morning, the crowds were gathered for the 10:30 Beatification.  Security was in place.

 

 

On the Via Aurelia, pilgrims still in their sleeping bags will rise soon to join in prayer

 

Pilgrims came from many lands.  Hotels were at capacity, and hundreds–perhaps thousands–of people slept on the street.  For some, a hotel may have been too much of an extravagance; for others, just the opportunity to be close to the action may have been the impetus to remain on the sidewalks.

A view of the crowd gathering to catch a glimpse of Pope Benedict

 

I met so many really interesting people from around the world.  From college students to backpacking nuns…. Polish families with young children to an elderly Slovakian couple….  Writers and reporters and editors and publishers….  So many people from so many places, unified in their love for Pope John Paul II and for the Church.

Really? This young man really slept through the Beatification.


I loved the backpacking nuns! These sisters were actually sleeping on the street down the road from our apartment.

 

 

Attending a Beatification is hard work! We had planned to leave the apartment at 4:00 a.m. Our group learned, though, that others in our residenza would depart for St. Peter’s Square as early as 3:00 a.m.—so Lisa Wheeler, grand taskmaster and organizer extraordinaire, revised the plan and we planned instead to leave by 2:30. That’s 2:30 In The Morning!!

 

We set off at a brisk pace. Lisa has firsthand knowledge of the winding streets of Roma, and she led us to a spot on Via S. Pio X. There, 20 feet from the front of the throng, we stood and waited so that, in six hours or so, we could move forward and stand and wait again. My middle-aged knees screamed “NO!” and I took off to explore other corners.

Roomies Lisa Wheeler and Alexis Walkenstein (Maximus Group) in St. Peter’s Square

So I walked the banks of the Tiber River, crossed over the Bridge of Angels near Castel Sant’Angelo, then sat in a trattoria and made friends from northern Italy and from France. My new French companion told me she helps “ancient people”—that means she works at a home for the elderly and infirm, so by “ancient” she means, oh, sixty-five or so.

 

 

Rome’s firemen join in the preparations and the celebration

 

 

I ordered coffee—and it came–espresso, maybe two tablespoons of it, in a plastic cup smaller than a shotglass.

 

 

 

I have never before experienced the press and the passion of a million fervent souls. In the pre-dawn they huddled on cobblestones and some slept on sidewalks, young men and entire families deep in their sleeping bags along the Via Aurelia. As the sky brightened from black to midnight blue to azure, they stood, waved flags, and joined the birds in exuberant songs of praise.

For those who couldn’t get near enough to see, large screens broadcast the Beatification live.

Finally, I found my way back to St. Peter’s Square. As I approached our original spot on the Via S. Pio X the Carabinieri, the Italian police, opened the barricades and I was in—walking, then running along the Via della Conciliazione past the Palazzo Cardinal Cesi, my favorite hotel from years past, past religious articles stores and gelato stands, until I stood beside the Domus Artis, the great mosaic store which occupies the corner in front of the great Basilica of San Pietro.

The Missionary Sisters of Charity throw their doors open–welcoming Rome pilgrims.

I am short and I was about a block away, so my view was less than perfect; but the choral voices were angelic, the Mass prayers were the familiar Latin that I remember from my youth (and, of course, from EWTN and the occasional local liturgy).

I have been at Mass with Pope Benedict twice before—a few years ago at Yankee Stadium, and before that when, as Cardinal Ratzinger, he celebrated for an infirm Pope John Paul II on the occasion of the 25th anniversary of the deaths of the pope’s predecessors, Pope Paul VI and Pope John Paul I.  This time, though, was all the more glorious because of the high esteem with which I (and the rest of the world) regard JPII.

Why is there all this mess? In Rome, there are no trash barrels, as we have in the U.S. There are people whose job is to clean the streets after an event–and they depend on this for their income.

When Pope Benedict recited the words that elevated his predecessor, the crowd chanted a robust and emotional “Amen.” When the papal portrait was unveiled, cheers broke out across the Square.

The day was tiring, but the memories will last a lifetime. Like the apostle Peter, present with James and John for the Transfiguration of Jesus, I was inspired to respond, “Lord it is good for us to be here.”

 

This banner was erected after the Beatification–I suppose because had it been there for the event, it would have blocked the view.

 

 

The Family as Domestic Church: The Quattrocchi’s Are a Contemporary Case Study

Luigi and Maria Beltrame Quattrocchi understood the need to nurture faith in their young children, and integrated prayer into the daily routine in their family.

Born in Italy in the early 1880s, the couple married in November 1905 in the Basilica of St. Mary Major in Rome.  Luigi was a lawyer and civil servant; Maria dedicated herself to her family, while volunteering for a number of charitable and social Catholic movements.

The Quattrocchis had four children.  Filippo, the eldest, became a diocesan priest, becoming known by the name of Don Tarcisio.  Cesare, the second son, left home in 1924 to become a Trappist monk, taking the name of Fr. Paolino.  Stefania entered the Benedictine cloister in Milan and took the name Cecilia.

In 1913, Maria became pregnant a fourth time; but because of complications during the difficult pregnancy, the gynecologists urged her to have an abortion in hope of “at least saving the mother.”   Luigi and Maria refused to abort their child, even though the possibility of survival then with that diagnosis was just five per cent.  Although Maria’s suffering was great, they chose, instead, to trust in God.  The child did survive, and her grateful parents named her Enrichetta.  Although Enrichetta did not enter religious life as her older brothers and sister had done, she devoted her life to carrying, first, for her aging parents, and then for her priest brother.

Luigi and Maria’s loving family is an example of heroic sanctity in everyday life—a portrait of love and respect through the ups and downs of marriage.  On November 25, 1994, the cause for Beatification for Maria and Luigi Beltrame Quattrocchi was opened.  Just seven years later—on October 21, 2001—Pope John Paul II beatified the couple, the first married couple to be so recognized by the Church for their sanctity.  On October 28 of that year, the remains of Luigi and Maria were transferred to the crypt in Rome’s Shrine of Divino Amore (Divine Love).

A PRAYER FOR FAMILY LIFE

Dear Lord, with Mary and Joseph, you have lived within a family;
Teach me always to appreciate the precious gift of being part of a family.
Show me ever new ways to protect and comfort those closest to me, and
Let me, each day, do something that will say ‘I love you’ without speaking the words.
But remind me also to frequently say those words.
Let me never part from any member of my family in anger.
Prompt me always to turn back without delay – to forgive, and be forgiven.
And let me see your image within each person
in my own family, and in my greater family,
Knowing that in your Kingdom, we will truly be one family,
United by your sacrifice on the cross.
Amen.

From Fr. Tommy Lane, S.S.L., S.T.D.