Muslim First, Democrat, Republican, Libertarian, Independent After

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Of course, the most common water-cooler conversation today is last night's presidential debate.  Common consensus is that Governor Romney brought the battle to President Obama, while the president kind of stunk it up.  The more I watched the debate, the more my own position crystallized.  I'm not voting for either of them.  I'm done. There are those who would criticize me for "abdicating my responsibility" but in an untenable situation, sometimes no action is possible.  If you are standing in fr … [Read more...]

The Religion of One-ism

Facebook mysteriously restored all my old notes to me yesterday.  I now have access to old recipes and stuff I wrote back before I was blogging, or when I was blogging but was too lazy to click over to the other site to post.  This note was one of three I wrote to try to help people approach Islam without the preconceptions that are so common.  There are three notes total so I'll post them individually: I have found that most non-Muslims view Islam through the prism of the mainstream media. Ig … [Read more...]

Subway Ads? Yeah, I love their sandwiches! Oh, wait….

Sometimes, when it’s been awhile since I've written  a blog post, my editor will gently poke me to remind me that, hey, I’m a writer!  She’ll inbox me with an innocuous question.  “Did you see that article about such-and-such?”  I, being quick on the uptake, take the subtle hint and check out all the news to see what’s topical and interesting.  Of course, even before she contacted me I knew what was the most interesting, fascinating news that affected me and almost everyone I know.... I am SO gl … [Read more...]

Nascar, You Can Do Better Than This

It's pretty well known that I'm a Nascar fan.  I didn't see any races this weekend because I'm also an NFL fan so I was saving my limited TV time for the games on Sunday.  I was watching CNN's Headline News this morning when they broadcast a story, complete with video, about Nascar driver Tony Stewart and his penchant for grabbing women's butts.  This time the victim was the wife of fellow driver Kevin Harvick.  I was really astounded at the light tenor of the news story and the fact that no one … [Read more...]

May Allah Guide Them, or Break Their Backs

"May Allah Guide Them, or Break Their Backs" A couple of days ago I typed this sentence in a blog post. I was referring to the people involved in making the low-budget film that portrayed Islam and the Prophet Muhammad, may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him, in a negative light. Worse than than, it was horrible, awful, blasphemous for Muslims. I got a lot of feedback from my post, much of it favorable, but there were several people who felt that this one sentence was brutal and … [Read more...]

My Brother the Drug Dealer

Every family has one. That relative who makes you cringe. The black sheep of the family. The trouble maker. The bad seed. The bum. When I became Muslim over nineteen years ago, I immediately became a sister to all the more than one billion Muslims on the planet. Quite lovely and touching, when you think of it. A black-skinned man in Sudan is my brother. A lady with straight black hair and pale skin in China is my sister. A nut-brown girl in a village in India, a flaming redhead in Ireland, an … [Read more...]

Speaking Out Because I Must

I'm in the middle of work.  Blogging has to take a back seat to paying the mortgage, and packages have to be set out for the post office or Bob in Omaha will be sending me an irate email asking me why he hasn't received his widget yet.  So here I am, in my office, plugging away distractedly at work while watching CNN and obsessively checking Facebook every five minutes.  My husband is across the room packing and listening, too.  Occasionally one or the other of us makes a disgusted noise in res … [Read more...]

Dying on 9/11, Or Any Other Day

On September 11, Welsh actor Andy Whitfield died of lymphoma.  He was survived by his wife, Vashti, and their two children.  He didn't die when a plane crashed or when a building collapsed.  He passed away at a hospice care facility after chemotherapy efforts proved unsuccessful against a very aggressive non-Hodgkins lymphoma.  I know about his death, and a tiny bit about his life, because I googled around to find out who, besides those in New York and DC and Pennsylvania, died on September 11. … [Read more...]

Autstic Kids at my Eid Party? Sure, Why Not?

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Salaam Alaikum wa Rahmatullah. So Ramadan is almost at an end and I'm planning my Eid party.  We decided last year that in order to make the Muslim Holy Days / holidays special, we'd have a big get-together with a bounce house, snacks, crafts, and lots of friends.  Our first Eid party was small but fun with several families and the neighborhood kids.  The bounce house was a major success.  I just made my reservation for a large Dora / Diego bounce house for our party set for September 1.  I crea … [Read more...]

Blogging is not supposed to be this hard!

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Salaam Alaikum!  Yes, I know, the silence from this little corner of the Patheos world has been deafening.  My poor little overwhelmed brain has been struggling to make my hands type out topical, fun, clever, and oh-so-inspiring articles for my blog.  Allah knows there's plenty to write about.  Maybe that is the problem.  I am so overwhelmed by what is going on in the world that I am paralyzed, like a deer caught in the headlights of an onrushing vehicle.  Or maybe it's the chronic sleep depri … [Read more...]


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