Love & Fear the Driving Forces!

Dan Baker, in his interesting and I think helpful book, What Happy People Know, reminds me of the New Testament, as well as Kubler-Ross, when he writes:

In the ultimate analysis, human beings have only two essential, primal feelings: fear and love. Fear impels us to survive, and love enables us to thrive. This complimentary pair of feelings has been the driving force of human history.

The pic is taken from Mark Hemmings’ New York City Photographs collection.

About David Hayward

David Hayward runs the blog nakedpastor as a graffiti artist on the walls of religion where he critiques religion… specifically Christianity and the church. He also runs the online community The Lasting Supper where people can help themselves discover, explore and live in spiritual freedom.

  • Tina

    Hi Dave,

    Just wondering, if I check here

    regularly, will I be catching everything that you’ve posted? Or, do I need to search around your site to not miss anything?

    Tina McLaughlin

  • nakedpastor

    thanks tina! just go to and you’ll get the latest!

  • Fred

    Motivated by love and/or fear. Basic character motivation for the fiction writer.