Prospect.org: Purity Culture is Rape Culture

Trigger warning: The linked article contains a graphic description of gang rape. In fact, the warning applies to all of the links in this post.

Women protest against rape in Delhi.

E.J. Graff at The American Prospect writes, in Purity Culture is Rape Culture:

Too many people still conceive of rape as a man’s overwhelming urge to enjoy the body of a woman who has provoked him by being attractive and within reach. As is true in many “traditional” cultures, much of India still imagines that the violation was one against her chastity…. But conceiving it as primarily a sexual violation places the burden on women to protect their bodies’ purity. But seen from a woman’s own point of view, rape is quite different: It’s punishment for daring to exist as an independent being, for one’s own purposes, not for others’ use. Sexual assault is a form of brutalization based, quite simply, on the idea that women have no place in the world except the place that a man assigns them—and that men should be free to patrol women’s lives, threatening them if they dare step into view.

Readers here will find Graff’s argument familiar. I’ve made it before. So has Sarah Moon. So has Libby Anne, more than once. Simply put, in cultures that glorify female chastity, a woman’s sexual “purity” is considered of greater value than her right to an independent existence. This attitude creates a culture of victim-blaming, which is the definition of rape culture: a culture that excuses rapists and blames women for their own victimization.

This is precisely why it’s dangerous to argue that women ought to dress modestly to avoid male temptation. Doing so perpetuates the lie than men can be tempted beyond their ability to resist, and frames their acts of violence and depravity as inevitable results of forces beyond their control. Doing so creates an environment in which rapists can operate.

  • Flower

    I have a friend from India whose parents moved to Canada when she was in her early teens. She said it was so bad there, that young women would never, never walk alone. Her mother taught her daughters how they should walk (always with other people in a group), and to keep their heads down and hands protecting their breasts, to protect themselves in a way that avoided men grabbing and groaping. She said that it was just a part of life when she was growing up and women accepted it because it was part of the male-dominated culture. It’s not about sex; that is just an excuse. It is about keeping the women out of the public sphere, in their “place.” Her parents moved when the daughters were teens to give them a chance for a better life. Now in their thirties the daughters have had a much better life than would have been possible in the country where they grew up.

    It’s amazing to me how much hatred there is for women in the world, from the forced ultrasounds in the U.S. to the awful story of that young Indian woman’s death.

  • http://vixidragon.blogspot.com Vixi Dragon

    I think this stems from the general perception that rape is an issue of impulse control. I wrote about it here:
    http://vixidragon.blogspot.com/2013/01/arguing-with-myself-rape-prevention.html