Overscheduled? Tina’s Tale Is For You

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Recently, I received an email from someone in search of an article I wrote for the now-defunct Discipleship Journal magazine. They couldn't find it online, and wondered if I might have a copy somewhere. It won an honorable mention in the 2007 Evangelical Press Association fiction category, and as I re-read it, it occurred to me that the words of this parable might be relevant to many of us as we jump into the busy routines that go along with this time of year. (I'm preaching to myself here.) … [Read more...]

40+ And The Church / Listening To Millennials And Visa Versa

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I've written a lot about the relationship between those at or beyond midlife with the local church. (Click here, here, here and here.) We Boomers and older Gen X'ers have shaped modern evangelical church culture. And many of us have grown increasingly disenfranchised from the very subculture we helped to create. While some have found fresh meaning and energy to serve in their second adulthood, nearly half of those who responded to an informal survey I ran on this blog a little over a year ago … [Read more...]

Thoughts On The Timing Of HSLDA’s “Line In The Sand” Statement

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We home schooled our children from 1992–2004. During those years, home schooling was not yet mainstream. Like many other families worried about running afoul of truancy laws, we paid our yearly dues to the Home School Legal Defense Association (HSLDA) in order to ensure we'd have access to legal help if we needed it. Their conservative, home-schooling dad lawyers, including Doug Phillips, were regulars on the home school convention speaking circuit. When Phllips left to launch Vision Forum, I u … [Read more...]

40+ And The Church / The Sermon Zone

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At a social event last weekend, I ran into C., a woman I used to know when our kids were young. C. and her family were long-time, active members of a well-known megachurch in our area. Her nest had been empty for a couple of years now. C. and her husband were in the midst of relocating from this area to more temperate climes, delayed only by the sale of a home that has languished on the market for many months.I asked C. if she was still attending the megachurch, and told me she and her … [Read more...]

“Failure Is A Beautiful Gift Wrapped In An Ugly Package”

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I remember seeing an announcement a few years ago for the first Epic Fail pastors gathering, and wondering if the idea was an Onion-inspired joke. No pastors I knew - and I knew a lot of them from my time working at Trinity International University and then serving a Chicago-area church networking ministry - wanted to apply the word "fail" to themselves or their efforts. The leaders gatherings and pastors conferences I've attended over the years were all about ministry success. In those … [Read more...]

In The Cross-Hairs Of Middle Eastern Current Events

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"All's fair in love and war" the old saying goes, but true love is focused on the good of the other and filters itself accordingly. During the past few hundred years, Western civilizations fought their wars in the name of a king or on behalf of a country, with conventions (at least in principle) that were supposed to guide their warfare.Those old boundaries, the kind found on maps, don't matter quite so much anymore. Al Queda and their assorted ideological and spiritual cousins like ISIS, … [Read more...]

My Regret: “…But I Never Said Anything.”

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I would not typically consider sharing a post someone left on my Facebook wall, but the words below from an old friend are timely in light of the mean-spirited words about suicide that have been written by a few bombastic internet trolls in the wake of the death of Robin Williams earlier this week. I shared a bit of Don and Kathy Groesser's story here and here a while ago. With Don's permission, I am sharing his brave, honest confession exactly as he left it on my wall. May it give each one of … [Read more...]


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