I’m the opposite of a Jock, whatever that would be, though I played ice hockey in my youth and now still play a little tennis and golf. I do like to watch American football and, having lived in New Hampshire for twenty years now, I root for the New England Patriots. I was one of [Read More…]

Are You Anxious About the State of the World?

Many people today are anxious about the state of the world. They find their global anxiety affecting their everyday lives. Here are some suggestions for dealing with that anxiety: Don’t participate fully in modern culture. You can be an active, concerned citizen of your nation and the world without giving yourself entirely to the values [Read More…]

Taking Your Soul on a Trip

I enjoy the life of a full-time writer. I crawl out of bed to my Mac, still in my pajamas, and write a few paragraphs that came to me in the dim twilight time between sleep and waking. I don’t have to answer to anyone, other than my agent and publisher, but I only hear [Read More…]


If I were writing a dystopian novel about America’s end time, I might well use a short punchy name for the arch villain or anti-hero, say “Trump.” Dickens might have done the same, given his penchant toward gnarly names like Sykes and Pip.  A few months ago I walked out of a hotel in Chicago [Read More…]

A New Renaissance

One of my choice guides in all the work I do, whether writing or practicing therapy, is Marsilio Ficino (1433-1499), a fifteenth-century Italian astrologer, philosopher, translator, musician and priest who lived in what is now a suburb of Florence. He wasn’t all that different in style from a psychotherapist today.  He gave workshops at his [Read More…]

Your Body is Not Physical

To a human, there is no such thing as the body, pure and simple, a thing to be treated objectively. It is always meaningful and expressive. Only the objectifying, measuring, quantifying philosophy of our time could entice us to see ourselves as things. [Read more…]

Circling with Thomas Moore and Ralph Waldo Emerson

Emerson writes: “Our life is an apprenticeship to the truth that around every circle another can be drawn; that there is no end in nature, but every end is a beginning; that there is always another dawn risen on mid-noon, and under every deep a lower deep opens.” Notice that given all his many images, none is a straight line of progress. [Read more…]


Many people find eating painful because they are always trying to enjoy eating and lose weight at the same time. Maybe weight loss isn’t just about exercise and kind of food we eat. Maybe it’s about how we are in life. [Read more…]


They tell us that the gunmen and terrorists who shoot down numbers of innocent people are calm and methodical as they answer some urge in themselves to be barbaric and violent. Some assume that this calm is a sign of rationality and planning. But it is more likely an aspect of the insanity, the loss [Read More…]

Deep Religion with a Touch of Atheism

Some look out into the night sky and see nothing but darkness populated with a number of small lights.  They may conclude that because they see nothing but what astronomers tell us is there, that there is no God. And yet they may be feeling a sweeping sense of wonder and may be sent into [Read More…]