Is Ted Haggard gay or straight? Neither. Few of us are. Most of us, instead, are on a spectrum between the two, as Becky knight explains. Money Quote:
What was missing from the conversation was the awareness that sexual
orientation exists on a spectrum. Between the polarizing categories of
“gay” and “straight,” there is a diversity of experiences andorientations. Intuitively, I think we understand this, yet our culture
loves to categorize people into easily-definable boxes.