Al Mohler pointed us the other week to an article in New York Magazine which puts forward a fascinating argument that counteracts the prevailing view that our greatest need is for increased self esteem. Basically it seems we have been wrong all along about self-esteem and praise. Kids need to understand that effort is required, and should be praised for specific achievements rather than being given indiscriminate praise. This gives them the determination to keep going even when they experience... Read more