Seriously it’s not always called Samhain
I love a good celebration just like the next person but any Pagan that says they are free spirited and open yet refuses to acknowledge that other people that are Pagan call their Holiday’s different things is really just paganist. I never jived with the word Samhain, like never, from the first moment I saw it in Silver RavenWolf’s Teen Witch book to this very day I look at that word and I go it’s spelled how and pronounced how? I quit this Holiday it is going to be Halloween with extra festivities.
That is what Samhain was to me for around 20 years, because every book I read talked about this sacred holiday and I couldn’t get around the weird spelling and pronunciation of the word. I kept it to myself because that is what I do. I respect other people’s traditions and cultures. I celebrate Chanukah with friends, Christmas with my Family, Day of the dead with Co-Workers, and Samhain with the pagan temple. I was a mutt and I still kind of am a Mutt.
Then I decided that I was going to forge my own path, build my own holidays based on my spirituality and life. To do that I had to research who I was. Mostly Norse, I was a God Spouse to Thor, I was a warrior, I lived in Michigan, when I lived in Florida I felt weird, I like the cold, and most of the time you have a 50/50 chance of it snowing on Halloween where I live. When I was a kid, you had to buy your Halloween costumes a size big, so you could fit a snowsuit underneath. So, I started to research Scandinavian and Heathen Holiday’s and came across Winternacht.
Perhaps that is another reason why I never understood why people were like it’s a spooky time. I just wanted to party with reckless abandon, and celebrate my life, and the lives of all those who had come before me. Apparently, the tradition if you wanted to learn all the types of magic was to go sit on a burial mound over night and not go crazy. I prefer to do divination and just in general celebrate the fact that winter has come, I have made it through another summer of raiding safely and made it back to my family.
I will never say how someone else celebrates is wrong, I love seeing the differences in how people celebrate. I think it is a beautiful and amazing thing. I love to learn, and curiosity will always get the best of me. I hope it will always get the best of you. I just want you to remember while your write your posts about Blessed Samhain, Praise the coming of the Darkness, hallowed are our ancestors. There are also some of us out there that are going WOO-HOO it’s winter! Let’s Party! I’m Safe! This is awesome! YAY!
That is what a holiday is about to me as a Viking in general, and as a human. It’s about being a human and realizing that you are not the only human on this planet. You are one of 6 Billion Humans that has their own opinion on how the universe works or doesn’t work, and even if you have the majority it doesn’t mean if you are right or wrong, it only means that you have the majority. There is still something called respect and community. Without those, everything falters and then fails.
Use your Samhain or Winternacht to build your community up, not tear it down because of a difference of opinion.