10 great books that will strengthen your marriage

7.  His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage

This is another great book that has been around for a long time.  I remember reading this one before Dave and I got married, and it helped me understand Dave’s needs as a man like nothing else I have read before.  His Needs, Her Needs explores the most important emotional needs that most men and women have.  Harley describes these needs in detail and also educates the reader on how to recognize and meet these needs for their spouse.  I highly recommend that you and your spouse read through this book together and talk about how each of these emotional needs affects you, what needs aren’t being met, and how each of you can do a better job of meeting these needs.  When you both consider and strive to meet one another’s needs, trust and security will grow in your marriage.