Reason #1: Porn Hurts Your Wife’s Heart By . . . Making Her Feel Like You’re Having Sexual Involvement With Someone Other Than Her
Women generally aren’t as tempted toward self-stimulation as men are and even when we are, it is usually around internal fantasies, not via external pictures of a completely different person. So when you’re looking at another woman and having a sexual experience at the same time, we view that as having a sexual experience with another woman. I know many men don’t view it that way. But we do. (And so does God, by the way. When Jesus calls it “committing adultery in your heart” he’s not just laying down a rule of some kind; he’s accurately describing what truly is going on in the hearts of men.)