3 Ways Porn Hurts the Heart of Your Wife

3 Ways Porn Hurts the Heart of Your Wife February 5, 2018

Reason #1: Porn Hurts Your Wife’s Heart By . . . Making Her Feel Like You’re Having Sexual Involvement With Someone Other Than Her 

Women generally aren’t as tempted toward self-stimulation as men are and even when we are, it is usually around internal fantasies, not via external pictures of a completely different person. So when you’re looking at another woman and having a sexual experience at the same time, we view that as having a sexual experience with another woman. I know many men don’t view it that way. But we do. (And so does God, by the way. When Jesus calls it “committing adultery in your heart” he’s not just laying down a rule of some kind; he’s accurately describing what truly is going on in the hearts of men.)

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  • Erin

    Porn is not an affair it’s nothing like that and if you feel like that then talk to your spouse and they will probably say it’s just a bit different and less effort than sex. Maybe number three has some truth but it’s not just about women. Men watch these videos of men who are well endowed and can last forty five years in bed, and maybe they feel inadequate too? Maybe porn hurts everyone by teaching them the sleeping with your stepsister is okay. Maybe porn hurts everyone by saying it’s okay for professional and personal relationships to happen on your bosses bloody desk. Stop focusing on this crap and focus on what actually needs to change within the industry. Porn isn’t bad an be incredibly good but it just needs to change the things that can hurt some people.