Are You Measuring His Love By The Size Of Your Diamond?

What Now?

So Sarah should take a page from that book. It doesn’t mean she can’t discuss saving for an upgraded ring if she decides that’s what she really wants, or trying to help her fiancé understand how much it matters to her. She should talk to him about it and work toward a solution that satisfies both of them. But she should do it in a way that demonstrates that she believes he truly cares for her. And for anyone in this situation, no matter what, before you get married, decide that you will choose to always believe in—and keep your eyes on—the real prize: his great love for you.

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Shaunti Feldhahn loves sharing eye-opening information that helps people thrive in life and relationships. She herself started out with a Harvard graduate degree and Wall Street credentials but no clue about life. After an unexpected shift into relationship research for average people like her, she now is a popular speaker and author of best-selling books about men, women and relationships. (Including For Women Only, For Men Only, and the groundbreaking The Good News About Marriage).

Her newest book, The Kindness Challenge demonstrates that kindness is the answer to pretty much every life problem, and is sparking a much-needed movement of kindness across the country. Visit www.shaunti.com for more.