Talk The Situation Over And Come To An Agreement
If he doesn’t have an immediate answer to those questions, that’s okay. Guys often need some time to process things. You might learn more over time, anyway—and be better able to convey that you’re willing to help take some of the pressure off. One of the important factors in reducing relationship stress around money that we share in the book is having a financial cushion. That might be a goal you can work towards (or commit to maintaining) as a couple to ease his sense of financial pressure. Whatever practical steps you decide to take, or agreements you make, talking it over can help you understand each other’s point of view better—and help you both experience more peace when you make a purchase.
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