Why Does My Wife Expect Me to Read Her Mind?

Truth #3: When you routinely seek out what matters to her, her vulnerability will arise a lot less often 

There is great news here: Your efforts to discover what matters and “learn” her every day will build a true security under the surface of her heart. Her vulnerability may never fully go away—just as yours may never fully go away—but you can build a sense in her that she really is special and known and loved. After all, 18% of the women on our survey said their husband sent those signals so well, that they truly no longer questioned whether they were loved.

So how do you get there? That leads to our fourth and final truth.