What I learned from criticism

When we are criticized, our natural first response is defensive. We may minimize the problem or make excuses. We can deflect, detour and dismiss. And the worst thing we can do is blame.

Red Letter Believers – those who live by the words of Jesus in their every day life — take responsibility. It’s easy to find someone to pin the blame, but try starting with the man or woman in the mirror.

Unfair criticism can smart. It can cut. But you can use all criticism –– even the unjustified kind –– for your personal enrichment.

Ask, “have I heard this before?” If the criticism is a repeat from someone else, then you might want to consider its validity

“Is there an element of truth?” Some criticisim comes from real defiiciences.

“How could they have reached that conclusion?” Perhaps the perception doesn’t match up with reality and you need to change your presentation.

Criticism can be a good thing if you handle it properly.

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