Why I Support the Ordination of Women & LGBTQ People

Why I Support the Ordination of Women & LGBTQ People March 26, 2014

I could go in lots of directions with this post.

I could write about how a defining quality of Jesus’s earthly ministry was his radical invitation to people on the cultural margins—women, children, people who were poor and sick—to join in fellowship as equals. He sometimes went a step further, preaching that children and the poor weren’t just invited along for the ride, but deserving of honor and leadership roles. I could write about how following Jesus’s example means inviting those in our culture who have to fight for equal footing in so many places, such as women and LGBTQ people, to participate fully in Christian community life, including ordained ministry.

I could write about the scriptures typically used to justify the exclusion of women and LGBTQ people from church leadership. I could write about whether those few-and-far-between scripture verses are consistent with the Gospels’ overall message of hospitality, forgiveness, inclusion, and love. I could write about the cultural context in which those verses were written, and how the meaning of words in the original texts don’t match up exactly with how we use those words today. I could write about the hundreds of Bible admonitions that we openly ignore, recognizing that they made sense for an ancient Jewish culture but not for ours, and question why so many Christians take verses about women and homosexuality at face value while setting aside verses about everything from dietary laws to divorce.

The radically inclusive nature of Jesus’s ministry and the nature of Biblical interpretation are important, and have something to do with why I support the ordination of women and LGBTQ people. But they are not the primary reason.

I support the ordination of women and LGBTQ people because if I didn’t, I would have to look people in the eye and tell them that I don’t believe that their call to ministry is real.

I think of Carol, one of my housemates in D.C., who described her call to ordained ministry as a vision she had of herself preaching and presiding at the altar during Eucharist. I think of the associate priest at my church, for whom preaching is more than a skill or interest. It is a gift. Curtis’s sermons are marked by thoughtful content and a masterful delivery that uses rhythm and dynamics along with words to get the message across. I suppose he could use this skill as a motivational speaker or university professor. But every time I hear Curtis preach, I am convinced that he was meant to do this.

I can think of a half dozen other women and LGBTQ people whose pursuit of ordained ministry is not just a career choice, but a calling. We cannot, of course, prove a calling. And the idea of calling can be abused by, for example, fundamentalists convinced that God has called them to preach that “God hates fags” or to fly planes into buildings. But even outside of the church, we know what it looks like when someone is so obviously suited for a particular kind of work, when passion and skill come together in a mysterious alchemy that makes the hard work they do look easy (even if it’s not). We name such a phenomenon a “calling.”As Christians, we believe that calling comes from God—perhaps not as clearly as Carol’s vision of herself at the altar, but through inklings and conversations and prayers and paying attention to what makes our hearts beat a little faster and who comes to us looking for help and of what kind.

I support the ordination of women and LGBTQ people because of Carol and Curtis and so many others whose work is so clearly building God’s kingdom. I support them because denying their call to ordained ministry would be denying God.


On a related subject, I have this to say about the World Vision controversy:

World Vision is an evangelical organization that enlists individuals to sponsor poor children around the world. World Vision has always required employees to practice abstinence outside of marriage and fidelity within marriage. Now that same-sex marriage is legal in more and more places, they have announced that people in same-sex marriages are eligible for employment. A spokesman says that this move should not be read as an endorsement of gay marriage, but as a gesture toward Christian unity: “This is not us compromising. It is us deferring to the authority of churches and denominations on theological issues. We’re an operational arm of the global church, we’re not a theological arm of the church. This is simply a decision about whether or not you are eligible for employment at World Vision U.S. based on this single issue, and nothing more.”

I am moved, pleased, and yes, surprised by World Vision’s willingness to make a clear policy statement that errs toward inclusion and generosity, while also recognizing that Christians can and will disagree on matters of theology and ethics. I read one Facebook commenter who, bemoaning the nasty turn that conversations about World Vision’s decision have taken, wrote, “We live in a culture where everyone has to be right.” What I most appreciate about how World Vision framed their decision is that they made a limited policy decision without pontificating on the larger issues involved. They did what they believed was right for their internal policy while recognizing that there is more than one way to be “right” on a Christian position toward gay marriage.

I am not surprised by the predictable backlash by some conservative Christians  (like this one) who insist that World Vision’s decision is nothing less than the “collapse of Christianity.”

While I support gay marriage and full inclusion of LGBTQ people in church life, and believe that position is consistent with Christian theology and ethics, I also respect other Christians—not hate-filled homophobes, but thoughtful, insightful Christians—who believe that gender difference (i.e., two different genders, male and female) is an unequivocal requirement of marriage as God intended it. I do not, however, respect the elevation of issues around human sexuality to such a level that they become firm measures of whether one’s Christianity is legitimate or “collapsing.” To make one’s view on gay marriage, or any other sociopolitical issue, a central marker of whether one is or is not a follower of Jesus is idolatry—a worshipping of fallible, limited human opinion over the infinite God of the universe.

UPDATE: World Vision has announced a reversal of their earlier decision, calling it a mistake. When I wrote this post, I was so impressed with their thoughtfulness and courage. Now I’m just disgusted.



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  • Thank you, Ellen; I really appreciate your thoughts on this issue. The last sentence says it so well.

  • Clark

    Your arguments are eloquent, cogent, and valid. Well said!

  • Amy

    “I support the ordination of women and LGBTQ people because if I didn’t, I would have to look people in the eye and tell them that I don’t believe that their call to ministry is real.”

    Yes! As a woman who grew up in a Southern Baptist church and also feels a call to ministry (and have been nurtured and ministered to by countless numbers of women in the church), I have spent many years working through my feelings about these issues and how to discuss them respectfully when I am surrounded by so many people who feel differently than I do. We can debate all day long, but the bottom line is that we’re essentially saying, “You must have misunderstood what God wanted you to do.” I have friends and family who think I’m much too passionate about this issue (“Can’t we just agree to disagree?”) — at one level, yes, but when you’re telling people that God can’t use them as much as others or that they must be wrong about God’s call for them, this is more than just a basic doctrinal debate (e.g. do we dunk or do we sprinkle), we’re actually doing real harm to a person. The hurtful effect of this type of exclusion is often overlooked by many well-meaning Christians, and the hearts that are broken by the doctrine are forgotten.

    • Thank you for this perspective. Yes, while we can certainly agree to disagree, there are some issues (including this one and also debates about homosexuality) where we’re talking less about an “issue” and more about people’s deepest motivations and identity. So when people disagree, it’s not just an intellectual matter, but feels like rejection or negation.

  • Tim

    I’m not as well defined in my thoughts about ordination for anyone, men or women, straight or LGBTQ. But I am clear in understanding that the Bible teaches a gospel of freedom and grace and joy in the Lord. I truly appreciate your careful and thoughtful take on this today, Ellen.


    P.S. Like you, I also wrote a post on LGBT issues (gay marriage and no-fault divorce) and then saw the news about World Vision. It’s interesting how this all came together at the same time.