Charm School

Charm School

Day 3 of a Series on Social Stories Click here to read Day 1 and one of the Social Stories, “What is a mistake?”

When I first read through the list of stories, I was disappointed.  One because they all seemed so simple, and two because so many people thought they would be good for the boys.  Here are a few of the titles:

Why are gifts important?
How to shake hands
When it’s my turn to listen
Three gum manners that matter
How to lose a game and win friends
How to take a shorter shower
Restating with respect at school
How to write a true story

When I read the list to Jeff, he commented, “Well, I know a lot of grad students who should probably read that book.”

And then I remembered about MIT’s Charm School.  It takes place every January to help students who may not have read enough Social Stories as kids.  The website for charm school says:

Participate in mini-classes on a wide variety of “charming” subjects, take in the wisdom of our Charm instructors, and even earn your “Ch.D.” (Doctoral degree in Charm).  And by mini, we mean mini – each Charm Class is only 15 minutes long!  That means you can take in 4 different subjects in just an hour and be that much closer to earning your degree.

Here are a few classes you can take at Charm School:

Body Language
How to Diffuse Awkward Moments
How to Make Small Talk
Tables Manners
Apologies and Forgiveness
Attentive Listening 101
Bow Tie Tying and Suspender Selection
Don’t Mess Up the Break Up
Hosts with the Mosts: How to be a Gracious Social Planner
How to Be a Guest
How to Tell Someone Something They’d Rather Not Hear
Making a Charming First Impression
Moving Beyond Emoticons: Flirting in Person
Talking to Strangers: How to Strike up a Conversation
Gym Etiquette and Comfort Zone
Library and Information Etiquette
Finding Alumni Career Advisors
How to Diffuse Awkward Moments

The truth is, most of us could benefit from a little charm school.  But until they open it up to homeschoolers, we’ll just have to stick with the social stories.

 


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