How Sad That So Many Women Don’t Know How To Enjoy Sex And Their Sexuality.

How sad that so many women don’t know how to enjoy sex and their sexuality.

Yes, I agree. Women have had a history of being sexually repressed (and repressed in general) from the beginning of documented time. Different cultures have dealt with sexuality in diverse ways, but in general it has had underlying negative tones (many times for religious reasons). It’s only been in the past say 50 years that we are beginning to overcome negative sexual perceptions/myths. And we still have a long way to go. Additionally, as part of the “sexual revolution” and even women’s rights, the pendulum has at times swung too much in the other direction where sex and sexuality have lost their sacredness (i.e. pornography, casual sex seen as a norm, etc.). This only furthers sexual confusion and misperception of what its true purpose and enjoyment are supposed to be about. Not only are women greatly affected negatively by this unfortunate history, but so are men. The only successful course of action we can take part of to correct these issues is proper education. We need to begin with personal education regarding our own sexuality, anatomy and sensuality, being willing to challenge negative sexual perceptions if we have them. The next step is to then move on to the very important issue of educating our children correctly about sex and its joint purpose of procreation along with bonding with one’s spouse in an enjoyable fashion. The gospel of Jesus Christ, thank goodness, has many teachings that support marriage, sex within the bonds of marriage, and “oneness” with one’s spouse. This can be a great starting place for many who have negative sexual perceptions due to incorrect or misplaced religious teaching. There are also many appropriate resources for women, men and couples to challenge and/or improve their sex lives and sexual perceptions. My hope is that as members of the church, we can reach out in an open and respectful manner regarding this very important topic. It is not worth suffering in silence. Help is available.