Regrettably, I had sex before I was married. However, I have never once compared my intimate relationship with my wife to my pre-marital experiences, not even in my mind.
We have still very much discovered the joy of sex together, simply because our emotional closeness is so very different to pre-marital intimacy, where it was simply a physical act. We have discovered what pleases each other, and our physical relationship is unique to us. We have tried many different things, some only once and others regularly – but even where those physical acts may have been tried before with another partner, there is still a completely different level of enjoyment and fulfillment that comes in an eternal marriage relationship.
So, to those who worry about being married to someone with more sexual experience, don’t! Your sexual relationship can be yours together, and should be unique to you.