Through the process of working with the thousands of individuals and couples who have come to me for help with their sexuality, it has become clear to me that many of the people that reach out have a background from conservative religious backgrounds that affected their sexual development in rigid, misinformed and shaming ways. These people are dealing with: intense, immense and internalized sexual shame sex-negative educational foundations inappropriate meaning ruts inappropriate self or partner blame and developmental stunting in their ability to enjoy... Read more