Voices from the Pagan Hinterlands

Over the past few months as part of my duties in service to a Pagan organization, many individuals who are what I call Involuntary Solitaries have contacted me. To a person, these individuals express a deep desire to learn from, circle with and create social ties with the larger Pagan community.

These seekers represent a wide variety of different circumstances. Some live in very rural conservative communities. Others hail from countries such as Indonesia, Croatia, and the UAE. All are seeking the Goddess without the support of a community.

Attempting to connect this group of fellow Pagans with Elders within our communities has been frustrating. Most of the individuals I have contacted are very busy with their own traditions, events, and personal lives.

The thing that concerns me is that these followers of the Goddess are on the front lines of our growing community. As individuals they risk more than most of us can imagine in following their paths. One specific individual lives in a country where witchcraft is an offence that draws a life sentence.

While computers and social media sites have created some avenues for these individuals to obtain information and develop casual contacts in the Pagan community, they are expressing a deep yearning for a more meaningful experience where real friendships can be formed. The Internet, while a great tool, does not replace the sound of a real voice expressing heartfelt solidarity.

It has been my privilege to have multiple phone contacts with one of these “Involuntary Solitaries”. During these conversations I have witnessed tears brought on by gratitude, insights gained through conversation and a real friendship develop. Most of all, this individual has reminded me how blessed I am to live in a society that tolerates alternative belief systems. This experience has been very meaningful to me as part of my path of service to the community.

Join me in supporting these seekers who have very few alternatives. With very little effort you can make a huge difference in the life of one these “Involuntary Solitaries”. This season seek out someone who practices alone due to geographic location and make a new friend. You may find it is one of the best decisions you have ever made. It was for me.

Peter Dybing