People who constantly stress about what-ifs are problematic because they typically go to a place of worry that is unproductive and relationally draining. Stressing about what might be different today if you had done something different yesterday is pointless. None of us can change anything about our past. We can and should learn from our experiences, but we cannot alter anything about what happened. So, imagining a thousand “what ifs” is futile and fruitless. What if I hadn’t married that person?... Read more