Join me at my new Patheos blog

Patheos has invited me to start my own blog, focused more directly on men and church. Please join me at my new Patheos address: [Read more...]

Three Little Ways to Welcome Men at Church

With men, the little things matter more than you think. [Read more...]

Is Emotion Essential to Worship?

If we judge worshippers by the amount of emotion they manifest, we’ve set up a situation where women will win and men will lose. [Read more...]

Christian Exceptionalism and Men

No doctrine makes us more noxious to non-believers than the belief that Christians are the only ones going to heaven. [Read more...]

I’m coming to Australia – book me!

I’ll be traveling to Australia March 10-26, 2014 and I’m looking for opportunities to speak to churches, men’s groups and pastors’ conferences while I’m there. [Read more...]

Maybe the Church Needs Fewer Seats…

Airlines got rid of empty seats – and got healthy. One wonders if God isn’t doing the same thing with the church. [Read more...]

Why Men Don’t Share Feelings (Part 2)

Most men do not tell their wives what they really feel because if they did, their wives would punish them for it. [Read more...]

Why Men Don’t Share Their Feelings (Part 1)

Men are trained from a young age to deny their true feelings. Complete this phrase: “Big boys don’t __________.” [Read more...]