Good Grief: Soundings, Part Six – The Ante-Chamber to Eternity

2005 4

I must first admit that what I am about to share is only a small part of the answer to one of life’s great mysteries.   Keep in mind throughout this post the notion "life is not too short, when its everlasting!"Sometimes people rant and rave at God when their children die young, or when a loved one is suddenly taken away.  They think God must be cruel, indifferent, or non-existent.  None of these things is true, but usually these reactions are grounded in a false baseline assumption -- namel … [Read more...]

Good Grief: Soundings, Part Five – We Have No Right to Life

1986 2

(Please ignore the man in the moustache. That's our Christy on the right side of the picture and David on the left at our beloved Cherry Grove Beach).“Blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted."  Okay...but when will they truly be comforted?  The more closely you study the Beatitudes, the more you realize that Jesus is talking about eschatological consolation, not comfort here and now.  This becomes clear from the final clauses in some of the other Beatitudes—such as “for they s … [Read more...]

Good Grief: Soundings, Part Four – Let Yourself Grieve

1997 2

People wrote us from all over the world.   There were cards, emails, Facebook posts, actual letters, phone calls, and people showed up too.  One friend flew in all the way from Waco, and left immediately after the service.  All told, it appears we had upwards of 600-700 attempts at communication of solace and love.  More than anything we appreciated the love that was behind all of this, and of course the prayers, though, since I don’t believe prayers for the dead accomplish much, I was glad that … [Read more...]

Good Grief: Soundings, Part Three – The Hope of the Grieving

1997 a

 For some people the phrase good grief, if not immediately associated with the classic Peanuts cartoon strips, seems something of an oxymoron.   What can be good about grieving a departed loved one?    In the first place, there is such a thing as bad grief, inconsolable grief,  grief that consumes the griever, or grieving without hope. The Bible doesn't commend or command that sort of grieving.Paul discusses good and bad grief in 1 Corinthians 15.  He tells us that grieving is both … [Read more...]

Good Grief: Soundings, Part Two – Five Things Not to Say to the Grieving

1997 a

When a person suffers the devastating loss of a loved one, you should -- however well-intentioned you might be -- keep your mouth shut.  Or at the very least, you should think long and hard before you say anything.  Here are some of the things I recently heard that did not help, and frankly were not true.1)  "The Lord gives and the Lord takes away." Not a saying from God, rather it’s from the poorly-informed Job, who was later forced to revise his opinion.  As it happens, it was Satan who dev … [Read more...]

Good Grief: Soundings, Part One

1997 a

GOOD GRIEF -- WHAT DOES IT LOOK LIKE? Having recently gone through the devastating experience of having our beautiful 32-year-old daughter die, completely unexpectedly, of a pulmonary embolism, I was determined from Day One (January 11, when she was found dead in her home in Durham, N.C.) to be open to whatever positive thing there might be to glean from this.  I cling by my fingernails to the promise of Romans 8:28 that "God works all things together for good for those who love … [Read more...]

Presentation on the Historical Jesus

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History according to ‘Those Cable Channels’

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And Now we Know the Rest of the Story about the Mayan Calendar

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Well that explains a few things. … [Read more...]


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