Homily for April 29, 2012: On Vocations

My parish is hosting its annual vocations fair this weekend, to coincide with the 49th annual World Day of Prayer for Vocations, so my homily focuses on that.


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“We are all God’s children…what we shall be has not yet been revealed.”

Those words from the letter of St. John that we heard a few moments ago could speak beautifully to a subject we’re focusing on here at the parish this weekend: vocations.

What will God reveal to us about what He wants us to be?

I got an answer exactly 10 years ago this month. In April of 2002, I found myself in a place I never expected to be, doing something I never expected to be doing – and it changed my life forever.

I was attending Sunday Mass while on retreat at a Trappist monastery in Georgia and, for the first time in my life, I saw and heard a permanent deacon preach. His name was Wayne Bodkin, from Great Britain. I remember that he preached in three languages – English, French and Spanish – and that the gospel was about Jesus being the “way, the truth and the life.” I couldn’t explain it at the time. But something just clicked.

And from out of nowhere, I was struck by a shocking, improbable thought.

“This,” it said to me, “is what you should be doing.”

It was just that simple. That is how my vocation was born. The seed was planted. And, for better or for worse, here I am.

It’s impossible to say where exactly vocations come from, or how the Holy Spirit does His work. Who can say what divine chemistry causes a spark to catch flame?

But I can say this much, which may surprise you: if you think you don’t have a vocation, you are wrong.

The fact is that everyone in this church today has a vocation. Every one of us is called.

How we choose to answer that call – or choose not to – defines us not only for this life, but also for the next. For a lot of us, it may be marriage and raising a family. It may be living in the world as single man or woman. But for some of us, it may even involve a religious vocation – and it just might sneak up on you and alter your life in amazing ways.

I am here today to tell you that if you think you couldn’t possibly have a religious vocation, if you think that is utterly beyond the realm of possibility and its downright laughable…think again.

I used to think the same thing. So did a lot of people who have found themselves drawn into an unplanned love affair — a love affair with God that upended their world.

This is a phrase I heard a lot when I was in formation, and it’s worth remembering:

“God doesn’t call the perfect; He perfects the called.”

I like to tell the story of a man from Douglaston. He was born Protestant, and spent much of his life riding back and forth on the Long Island Rail Road – in a sense, waiting for God to reveal to him what he would be. For a while in college, this young man was a communist. While studying overseas, he fathered a child out of wedlock. But he later underwent a profound conversion. At the age of 23, he was baptized a Catholic. Three years later, he entered a monastery in Kentucky, where he went on to become one of the most influential and brilliant spiritual writers of the last century.

His name, of course, is Thomas Merton.

Or consider a young woman who graduated three years ago summa cum laude from Harvard. She could have gone to graduate school, or to work for a Fortune 500 company, or to teach and study at any university in the world. She gave it up for a life of poverty, chastity and obedience. Today, she is a novice with the Dominicans in Michigan.

She also grew up in Queens – in this very parish, in fact. Her name is Mary Ann Marks or, as she is known today, Sister Mary Veritas.

To paraphrase an old saying: sometimes a vocation is what happens to you when you are making other plans.

If you think you already have a career and your life is set…well, so did most of the men who were ordained to the priesthood in the United States last year.

Fr. Quan Tran of San Francisco was a lawyer for 12 years. Fr. Jonathan Kelly of St. Paul was an investment banker on Wall Street. Fr. Philip Petta of Fort Worth was baptized a Catholic when he was 48 and entered the seminary two years later. Father Christopher Klusman of Milwaukee may have answered the most unusual call – one that came to him in total silence. He is a priest who was born deaf.

Finally – and more immediately — there’s the young man who was a cartoonist and animator from Paramount Studios before he heard the call and joined the seminary over 50 years ago. He’s sitting up here at the altar this morning: Msgr. Joseph Funaro.

“We are all God’s children…what we shall be has not yet been revealed.”

What we shall be — what God reveals to us – so often makes up the great adventure of our lives. And it is within each of us, if we simply take the time to look, to listen, to pray – and to dream.

I invite you this weekend to do just that. Ask God where He wants you to go, what He wants you to do, how He wants you to make His dream for you come true. You may be awed and humbled by what you find.

Many years after he’d left Queens, and taken his last trip on the Long Island Rail Road, and embarked on the great adventure of his life, Thomas Merton wrote words about vocation that I want to leave you with this morning.

He suggested that it’s not about making a decision – but about making a discovery.

“Discovering vocation,” he wrote, “does not mean scrambling toward some prize just beyond my reach, but accepting the treasure of true self I already possess. Vocation does not come from a voice out there, calling me to be something I am not. It comes from a voice in here, calling me to be the person I was born to be.”


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  1. I might wonder what you wife, children, work place feels about your vocation is being a deacon. Seems to be a limited view of how God might be viewing one’s purpose in life.

    [Thank you for the observation. The views here are necessarily limited, and narrow, since this brief homily was designed specifically to encourage people to think about a religious vocation. Dcn. G.]

  2. Please give a balanced picture which would include the probability of being asked to leave the seminary because of a faculty member not liking you. Not only was that a familiar experience but also I saw the opposite happen where a “favored” seminarian was “escorted” through the system only to be caught up with child abuse cases on his doorstep ( which were proven to be justified).

  3. Dcn Jack Shea says:

    I had a similar experience, or I should say, experiences. I kept dismissing the possibility of having a vocation to the Diaconate for various reasons, mostly business related, for almost ten years. Fortunately, God kept calling and my wife and children supported me in discernment. I am approaching my second anniversary of ordination and very comfortable and happy with the fact that I am in the right place.

  4. Deacon Greg,

    I loved your homily! When I read how you were called to Diaconate. I said to my husband, “oh my gosh you have to hear this!!”.

    My husband, Myron, is a convert from Judaism (RCIA class of 1999). People had asked him in passing if he had considered a vocation to the Diaconate. He had, but he was required to be Catholic for five years before applying so we put the thought aside.

    On January 25, 2004 (the feast of the Conversion of St. Paul) we were at Sunday Mass at our parish in Pennsylvania. As the Deacon was receiving the blessing from the Pastor prior to proclaiming the Gospel, I heard a male voice say, “that should be Myron up there”. It was so real that I turned around to see if someone had actually spoken those words to me. They had not so I said silently, “Lord if this is you, please give Myron the same inspiration and I will know this is coming from you”. After Mass I asked my husband if anything unusual had happened to him. He said he felt that he was being called to be a Deacon. And so began the journey to Diaconate. After many years of Diaconate formation, on June 4, 2011 Myron, was ordained Deacon for the Archdiocese of Philadelphia.

    God does work in mysterious and wonderful ways. With me as a revert to the faith, and my husband a convert, God has blessed us profoundly with a wonderful life in service to him. We do almost everything we can together.

    If we are open to hearing what God wants of us we will hear it. We are all called in different ways to serve, but we are all called.

  5. Deacon Greg Kandra says:

    That’s a great story, Mary! Thank you for sharing it — and thank you and Myron for answering the call!

    Dcn. G.

  6. Mary Lowe says:

    What is the reference for the Thos. Merton Quotation that is at the end of your homily:
    “Discovering vocation does not mean scrambling toward some prize just beyond my reach………It comes from a voice in here calling me to be the person I was born to be, to fulfill the original selfhood given m at birth by God”.

    I can’t find where he wrote this & would like to know.

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