“The Specificities of Friendship”: Wesley Hill

asks for your help:

…There’s a certain irony, of course, about pursuing friendship, since, as C. S. Lewis notes, “The very condition of having Friends is that we should want something else besides Friends.” Sadly, and this is borne out in my experience, the times when someone is most desperate for friendship may be the times when it is hardest to find.

And that’s why I’m interested in what’s implicit in Karen’s comment—that most of us are already involved in certain friendships that we can work to strengthen, rather than create from ground zero. The question then becomes not, “How do we find the perfect friend whose qualities we’ve already enumerated ahead of time?” but rather, “How do we do undergird and deepen the ones in which we’re already involved?”

more

"I lived and worked in the UK. Sure I received “free healthcare.” There, hospitals are ..."

This is the only thing I ..."
"Sounds great! Needed a picture!"

Kitchen adventures: ginger-peachy!
"Great idea! The comment box can be toxic to your peace of mind.*chuckles that I'm ..."

Housekeeping: Make me do things!
""We’re the people of St Francis and St Joan, not Ken and Barbie." Well said ..."

Butch and Femme Metaphors in the ..."

Browse Our Archives

Follow Us!