Ignatius the Ultimate Youth Pastor

I saw this years ago, but laughed when I thought of it today while driving down the road.  When I got home, I found it, laughed to the point of tears, and thought I’d share it with you guys! Behold, the ultimate youth minister:

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Book Giveaway: “Jeremy Lin: The Reason for the Linsanity”

Let’s start from the beginning: Jeremy Lin is an Asian-American, Harvard-educated basketball player who became a New York Knicks phenomenon. The combination of his skill, his ethnicity, his Christian faith, and the improbability of his rise took the sports world by storm. Innumerable puns on his name, some ethnic slurs about Asian stereotypes, and a spate of books inevitably followed.

One of these books, Jeremy Lin: The Reason for the Linsanity, has already hit shelves after its author Timothy Dalrymple churned it out in an amazing three weeks. The beautifully written book tells the story of the unlikely sports hero who captured the hearts and imaginations of Americans everywhere. Dalrymple chronicles how Lin was recruited in 2005 by then–Harvard assistant coach Bill Holden who noted that Lin was 6 feet 3 (perfect for a ball player) and had a 4.2 high school GPA (ideal for a Harvard student). Though he wasn’t amazing physically, he was impressive spiritually and academically. The coach figured that he wasn’t going to be a star, but also that would make the team better. That’s how Lin became the “David” of this David versus Goliath story, even though he was 6’3”.

Dalrymple presents the against-all-odds story well. He himself was an elite athlete: a gymnast who broke his neck before the Olympic Trials of 1996. Because of his past experience, he understands competition as well as the pressures, joys, and opportunities of sport. In addition, the author is Ivy League–educated (Stanford, Princeton Theological Seminary, Harvard’s Graduate School of Arts and Sciences) which gives him a special insight into Lin’s educational background.

But the book isn’t a rote retelling of Lin’s life and history. Written in an accessible, engaging style, the book provides the behind-the-scenes stories that are even more inspiring than the pun-heavy headlines suggested. For example, Dalrymple reveals that Lin had to ask friends to pray that he wouldn’t be cut from the team. He had to beg coaches to give him a chance, and — at one point — he had to convince the guards at Madison Square Garden that he wasn’t the physical therapist. Dalrymple does a great job explaining how this same guy became so popular that a Manhattan lawyer’s wife bid $40,000 for his jersey and the chance to meet him. In fact, his was mentioned on Twitter 5 million times after a certain game against the New Jersey Nets.

But even though the author wrote this book in less than a month, it still wasn’t fast enough to make it to the market before Lin was sidelined with injuries. How does this recent turn of events affect the story? Did Dalrymple chronicle a fantastic life of an amazing man, only to have a bad ending?

Not at all.

Jeremy Lin: The Reason for the Linsanity underlines the sovereignty of God in every chapter of Lin’s amazing journey so far. The story has had ups, downs, and zig-zigs that could make most people lose heart. But not Lin.

After a game in which he got favorable but reserved reviews, Lin tweeted to his 26,000 followers: “God is good in our ups and downs!” This book — and Lin’s life — underline the hope, the steadfastness, the hard work, and the good humor of a man who’s ultimately surrendered his career and fate to God. Even the fact that he now has almost three quarters of a million followers seems like a small part of God’s plan for his life.

And that’s what makes Lin’s story so poignant. His life — like ours — is not perfect, but it is still being written by the author of life. This book is an excellent primer for those of us who will be watching with hope and expectation as it plays out on courts across America.

This book would be a great one to use for a discussion over dinner with your teens. Here are some conversation catalysts:

1.     Why do we have a national obsession with “underdogs” in sports?

2.     In what contexts would Lin be considered an underdog and in what contexts would he definitely not be considered an underdog?

3.     Why did Lin consider his basketball career a miracle even before he became a sensation, and in what ways does God orchestrate our lives and careers?

4.     How did Jeremy’s ethnicity inhibit his career?

5.     How did his ethnicity make him a better ball player?

6.     Is having a “chip on your shoulder” sometimes a good thing when it drives you to work harder?

7.     Is “ethnic pride” good? When could it be negative?

8.     What did the ear-piercing incident suggest to you about Lin’s sense of adventure and his respect for his mom?

9.     How did Lin deal with his sudden fame and how do you think you’d deal with it?

10. Would sudden fame be easier to deal with than a disappointing injury? How do his injuries change the story for you as a reader?

Full disclosure: I work with Dalrymple at Patheos.com where he’s the director of content and I’m the editor of the Faith and Family channel. This article first appeared here on National Review.

We’re giving away a copy of this book this week!  Please leave a comment below for your chance to win!

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Nation of Whiners, Meet Bob Newhart

A new article in the Wall Street Journal says that some therapists are changing their tactics regarding their clients. They’re trying “tough love:”

Whining, as defined by experts—the therapists, spouses, co-workers and others who have to listen to it—is chronic complaining, a pattern of negative communication. It brings down the mood of everyone within earshot. It can hold whiners back at work and keep them stuck in a problem, rather than working to identify a solution. It can be toxic to relationships. How do you get someone to stop the constant griping? The answer is simple, but not always easy: Don’t listen to it.

Moms, and bosses, are good at this. Some therapists are refusing to let clients complain endlessly, as well—offering up Tough Love in place of the nurturing gaze and the question “How does that make you feel?”

A friend quipped, “If therapists are going to start getting paid for ignoring people and telling them to quit whining, then I’ve got some hope for a second career.”

I’m not sure if this is a good development or not, but it all reminds me of this wonderful Bob Newhart clip from MadTV.  I’ve shown the kids this clip, which means that it frequently comes up in conversation.  I’ll say, “Stop it!” and they’ll laugh…  usually as they continue doing whatever it is they should stop:

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A version of this article appeared on National Review.

Vandy Loses Big Athletic Donors Over Religious Discrimination – Lies About It

Nashville’s City Paper uncovers more Vanderbilt deception about their so-called “all comers” policy:

“[General Counsel and Vice Chancellor for University Affairs & Athletics David] Williams said he, personally, hasn’t witnessed any athletic fundraising blowback from the all-comers discussion.

“I’m not saying that there may not be people who are out there, but we haven’t encountered anybody who has made [all-comers] an issue at all,” Williams said.

At least one donor says that’s just not true.

The City Paper spoke with a longtime supporter, who asked to remain anonymous, who said his family was prepared to make a six-figure donation toward the new multipurpose facility — if Vanderbilt made an exception for religious groups in the nondiscrimination policy. The donor said he met with Franklin and Williams outside of Nashville.

“We expressed … that we would like to be able to give, we believe in what Coach Franklin’s doing, but we just can’t do that knowing what we know about what’s happening to the religious groups there,” he said.

Similarly, longtime Commodore Club member Tom Singleton has been outspoken about his disdain for the Vanderbilt policy and the school’s enforcement of it. He appears in a video, along with Brentwood’s vice mayor (and a VU alum) Rod Freeman, that denounces the policy’s nondiscrimination mandate for leadership positions.

“The reason this is so objectionable to me is that they are [opening up leadership positions in Christian groups] for non-Christians. But they are allowing fraternities and sororities to discriminate based on gender,” Singleton said. “I can’t, in good conscience, continue to be associated with them.”

Singleton said he didn’t renew his football and basketball season tickets — and that he was cutting all ties with the school.”

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Also, read David’s post regarding what’s going on here in Tennessee here.

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Catholics Urge Catholics To Vote… Some Issues “Not Negotiable”

You gotta love this. (Hat Tip: Maggie Gallagher)

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