Beyond the Hijab

The school district I teach in does a “transfair” towards the end of each school year, giving current employees the opportunity to interview for other schools they are interested in transferring to. This year, due to moving and ending up with a long commute, I decided to attend the transfair in hopes that I would get a teaching job at a school closer to home.

Although in the same county and school district, the school I currently teach at and the schools I am interviewing for are very different. The main difference is the demographics and cultural diversity. The school I currently teach at has a high Muslim population, including a number of Muslim teachers. As I did my research on prospective schools, I started to feel nervous that the principals wouldn’t see beyond my hijab. How would they judge me? What assumptions would they make?

I juggled with my options then persevered and called up six schools for interviews.  I ended up with interview times with four out of the six. My worries returned. Did the other two judge me by my foreign name? Why else wouldn’t they give me a chance? My resume meets, if not exceeds, the vacant positions that need to be filled at their schools. I tried to get over the two schools, though, and focus on the four that I had interviews with.

Alhamdulillah, the interviews went great! From the start, I felt warmth from each principal. We engaged in deep, meaningful conversations (as opposed to the intimidating question-answer interview). And by the end of the week, I heard back from all four principals. They all wanted me at their school! Out of at least a hundred (it seemed) interviewees (for only two positions at each of the four schools), they all wanted me! They were able to look beyond the hijab after all. Or did they not? Did the hijab actually play a positive role? I don’t know if I’d be able to ever know that answer, but Alhamdulillah that Allah had them see me for who I actually am and the teacher that I can be to students.

Now I need to pick a school! Each principal invited me back to meet the team (grade level) that I will be working with. I will pray istikhara that Allah guides me and gives me comfort towards the one that is best for me.

Hoda is a wife and a mother to a stillborn daughter in heaven and a one year old son. She is an elementary school teacher in public school and lives in Virginia.

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  • Maha

    A lot of times I feel that I am too self-conscious about my hijab, and if I just let my personality and qualifications come out instead of my insecurities, interactions would be a lot easier!

    Congratulations on the new job opportunities!

  • Um Lubayah

    Congratulations, Hoda! May Allah bless you in whichever school you choose! :)

  • Aishah

    Asalaamu Alaikum

    Such a wonderful postive story. When I converted 18 yrs ago and started wearing hijab no one would give me a job. I think things have really changed since then. :) Alhumdullilah.

  • Hagar

    Masha’Allah, what a wonderful, positive story. I studied education in college and when it came time for me to start my training and student teaching in public schools, I had the same worries. I also worried about the children-how would they respond to me? but alhamdullillah, it wasn’t an issue at all (or for the most part, anyway) and by the time my student teaching was over, the kids, out of a sweet respect, would tell me when my hair was falling out of my hijab!

    I think most educated, open-minded people are able to see beyond the hijab. Thanks for sharing.

  • ummossama

    AA Teach,

    Congratulations!Great news! Al-Humdulillah. JAK for sharing. Ya made us proud!!!!:) Masha’allah.

  • Afnan

    Wohoo goo Hodhod :D