What the glass can’t hold

Last night my wife Catherine was thinking about why important and long-term relationships sometimes fail. This morning she awoke, went straight into her office, and made the below.

Though it took some doing, she acquiesced to letting me share it with you.

Both the photo and the words are hers.

Here’s to all of us who in the past have tried and tried and tried.

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  • Translator

    Another reason your wife rocks :)

  • Don Rappe

    This is great. I don’t have to read two blogs. Good art, from my perspective.

  • Jill H

    That’s stunning. Wow. This one’s definitely gonna stick with me.

    I get how you both support each other’s brilliance. Thanks (as ever) for sharing it all with us.

  • http://small-letters.com Mindy M.

    /smiling. Simple, insightful, beautiful.

  • Lymis

    I hope this is about other people’s relationships, and doesn’t reflect issues in your own. But yes, it’s beautiful.

  • Carol VanderNat

    That’s absolutely right on the money…I have goosebumps…my second marriage is just ending. That makes four long term relationships where I have tried to fit a whole bottle of wine into a shot glass….

    This reflects my feelings perfectly…it like you’ve been following me for the past month or so…

    Thank you for so beautifully speaking what is in my heart…

  • http://www.patheos.com/blogs/johnshore/ John Shore

    No, she was reflecting on her own past.

  • n.

    whew. my question (and guess at the answer) exactly.

  • Michelle P.

    Beautiful. Sad, but beautiful.

  • Lymis

    Whew, seconded!

  • Jill H

    I’m sorry Carol for what you’re dealing with. Kudos to you for staying strong in who you are and what is important.

  • Hannah Grace

    This is genuinely really, really beautiful.

  • http://www.facebook.com/bill.steffenhagen?sk=wall Soulmentor

    Wonderful. It happened to me….twice, and I WAS a mess both times. I couldn’t say it better. Catherine is one classy poet.

  • http://www.facebook.com/bill.steffenhagen?sk=wall Soulmentor

    Then you must be a gallon jug that takes it all with room to spare.

  • Elizabeth

    *thumbs up*

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    Never disappointing.

    Read it, shared it, re-read it… and then about 5 minutes after the second viewing it hit me like a ton of bricks.

    “Yes. Exactly.”