Psychopaths sleep just fine


The fact that you’re worrying about whether you’re good proves that you’re good. [Read more...]

Please be a Christian sex therapist

Young couple with problem on reception for family psychologist

“My dream job is to be a sex therapist, but I feel like this focus on sex makes me a bad Christian.” [Read more...]

My son is 17, gay, and miserable


  Dear John, Over the past couple of years, I often wondered if my son was gay. But usually I was able to explain it away or otherwise put it out of my mind. This past February, however, there simply was no denying it any longer, and I confronted him about it. [Read more...]

Here’s what happens when you yell at your employees


Never yell at your employees. Here’s why. [Read more...]

The real reason anti-LGBT Christians are so obsessed with sex?


I mean, c’mon already. [Read more...]

5 ways to make your girlfriend (or boyfriend) kind of start hating you


I get a lot of letters from men worried that they’re blowing their relationship with the woman they passionately love. Here are five things they’re doing wrong. [Read more...]

Spam I am


Lately I’ve grown pretty darn tubby, to the extent that I feel as if a whole other person—like, say, an eight-month-old baby—is strapped to my stomach, a baby which, like any baby, has a whole arena of needs and desires of its own. [Read more...]

An explanation of my editor, ghostwriter, and writing coach services

I offer six editorial and writing services: Project Evaluation, Project Development, Substantive Editing, Writing Coach, Telling Your Story and Editing Your Website. [Read more...]



Ah, life. It sure won’t hold still. [Read more...]

“UNFAIR: Christians and the LGBT Question” now on 4th of July sale. Because freedom. And fairness.


By way of celebrating our country, and the freedoms its brilliant Constitution guarantees to ALL of its citizens, I’ve cut the price of my book “UNFAIR: Christians and the LGBT Question” as low as Amazon will allow me. [Read more...]