to my take on “Extra Ecclesia Nulla Salus” with the very salient point that saying “You aren’t necessarily damned if you don’t die a Catholic”, while true, is not really the core of the message Jesus sent the Church to preach. Read him both here and here.
The Minimum Daily Adult Requirement approach to salvation that sees this either in terms of “Okay. Then we’re Golden!” or the Angry Triumphalist sees it in terms of “Fine! Any Catholic who thinks this believes in totally scrapping evangelism and letting Hitler into heaven!” both seem to me to not be thinking in terms of discipleship to and imitation of Jesus Christ, but of something else.