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  • Judgeforyourself37

    Be true to each other, but break that engagement if you feel that this relationship will not last, or that a sudden change in the career of your betrothed is something with which you may not be able to live. Be true to yourself, and remember that there are two in a relationship, and one person should never be subservient to another person.
    If the two of you have been together for a while, keep using reliable contraception and continue using it until you are really ready, emotionally and financially to raise a child. If you do not have children or choose not to have children, that is up to the two of you.

  • Judgeforyourself37

    PS.
    Your wedding does not have to be costly. Your dress does not need to be costly, you will only wear it once. You can even go to a JP with two dear friends or relatives to be your witnesses.
    Remember, this day should be about the marriage, not just the one day. Frankly, you will be surprised how quickly even a costly wedding day will spin by. So, save the money for a home.